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Flowers, foxes and a bit more rain.

Monday 12th June 2023: After the rain last night it is set to be another hot day again though I think more storms are in the pipeline. Seeing as I didn’t have to water today 😁 I got on with cutting flowers straight away. The flowers need cutting regardless of whether there are any orders or not, you need to keep the blooms coming and so either dead head or cut to achieve that. I do have some orders so that is what they will be used for and any that can be dried successfully will be hung up.

Once it was too hot to do any more (which was pretty early today) I came inside on was on a mission to clean the bathroom. Everything needs a good clean really as six weeks of not being able to do it has left a build up of dust and dirt. The place has has a quick hoover and a whip round with a cloth but not a real clean and I did contemplate getting a cleaner in. I mentioned it to John in the hopes he would say don’t worry I can help you but all I got was ‘it’s fine’ we’ll it’s not fine not to me anyway and so I set about cleaning the bathroom from top to bottom with my left hand and a small amount of use from my right hand. I can’t use hot water so that was out of the question, wipes it is then, not that I like using them but needs must in my current situation. I have one of those dust mops so that went around the walls first, then hoover with the brush attachment to pick up any debris and cobwebs, clean out the cupboards and wipe down all the walls, the units, the towels rails (painfully slowly I might add) use the limescale cleaner and a toothbrush on the China and the shower cubicle, wipe everything over, hoover the floor, wipe the floor over and voila about two and a half hours later I have finished 😂 A quick sit down and decide if I can do the same in the living room now or if I will run out of steam and do a half hearted job 🤔 This is really my spring clean which I was not able to do, probably not the greatest decision to do it on a very hot day but it’s either that or leave it and I don’t think I can as it’s driving me nuts 😜

I did start the sitting room and Shelley came over to visit and gave me a hand which was useful as I can’t move the sofas on my own at the minute, moved, dusted, cleaned and hoovered everything and I even got three loads of washing done. I watched the rain radar very carefully so that I knew when to get the washing in before the rain came, not a huge amount but still enough for me not to have to go out and water this evening.

Tuesday: This morning I got outside early and did some planting up which was actually a bigger job than it sounds. The bed that had been growing tulips and narcissi needed weeding and the bulbs all lifting so that they can be dried. They won’t be used as cut flowers again next year as the flowers are likely to be small but they will still be added to the front bed with shrubs in and over a couple of year will gather strength and maybe even multiply. Once it was cleared I could plant some dahlias, coreopsis and a penstemon I had been growing, then once watered in well it was given a good mulch with the old woodchip (not the new stuff as that needs to break down before using on growing beds) Thinking it must be nearly lunchtime I came in to find it was only 10.30 😂 So the next job was to go and make up a bouquet for an order that John would be delivering at lunchtime. I also needed to get the flower room tided up ready for a workshop this evening, not a flower one this time but an introduction to beekeeping workshop which will be taught by Dave from Bradwell Bees whose honey we sell in the egg shed.

I had a visit from Charlie and Oscar at lunchtime and then my hairdresser came to give me a hair cut. After that I had a sit down for a couple of hours, busy morning, rest in the afternoon, busy evening that’s how it goes on hot days for me.

It feels very close again now, I can’t see any rain on the radar so it will be an uncomfortable muggy night I think 🙄

I spent the evening outside watering, weeding and planting, I also saw a hedgehog, not sure if it was Hilda but lovely to see.

Not sure what happened to Wednesday 😂 much of the same I suspect.

Thursday: Up at 4.45 this morning to get some work done outside before it gets hot again. Watering mostly but some cutting of flowers for tomorrow’s Friday flowers. indoors once it got too hot and I ran out of shade, I did manage to prick out some seedlings in the greenhouse though 😁

After school the twins came but George was not very well and I had to send John out to get some calpol as I didn’t have any left.

In the evening I made up some jam jar flowers and some market bunches. While I was working the dogs started barking, I checked outside and couldn’t see anything. Then I heard Patch yapping in the front paddock so I went through the garden so see where he was and why he was barking. I whistled him and he came back, I told John I thought the fox had been about which is why the dogs were barking. When John went to shut the hens away in the front the bloody fox was in the hen house, somehow it had got in and the gate had shut behind him so he couldn’t get out. We have lost quite a few hens lately and can’t get anymore until September and I am not sure we will even bother. When we first came to live here the hunt was still allowed and the fox population was controlled or if you had a problem you could call them in but now there is no control and it is relentless. Couple that with the rise in feed prices, avian flu lockdowns and you wonder what the point is anymore, it’s pretty soul destroying.

Drying petals
Practising a foam free arrangement
😡 we will not have many hens left soon and we have said before that it will take some serious thinking through to decide if we bother to get any more or not as each year we battle against last years cubs fending for themselves and mother foxes feeding young, they are always out and about during the day which is difficult to protect free range hens from. With little control over the fox population the problem gets worse year on year but I guess what will happen is once the population gets too big they will begin to starve or turn to other food sources 🙄

Friday: Up early again, did a bit of pruning and cutting back and then cut flowers for tomorrow’s orders and workshop. Then Charlie picked me up and we went to Witney for a mooch round and some brunch, a very nice bagel at Coffeesmith and then pistachio ice cream a little bit later on the way back to the car. Shelley messaged and it was Josh’s turn to be poorly and she asked us to pick up a thermometer, we dropped it round on the way back and Josh was running a fever ☹️

John and I went out to get some shopping and called in to see how Josh was on our way home, he had perked up a little since the afternoon which is good.

Back home and straight on with more work, a couple of flower orders to make up for collection tomorrow afternoon and also a memorial heart for Father’s Day also being pick up tomorrow. Tidy up the flower room and sort the flowers for the workshop tomorrow morning, change all the water and snip the stems of all the flowers. With the weather so warm the flowers are struggling a little bit so I need to keep them in top condition. Sweep up and I am done at 9.30pm. John did the animals and also gave the lawn a trim for me, if I am showing people round it’s one thing that can look tidy 😂

Saturday: Plenty to get sorted before this mornings workshop, watering, cutting, weeding etc. Workshop at 10am and it was a lovely couple of hours, I really enjoy teaching (who would have thought) and each time the dynamics are different, the questions are slightly different and peoples experiences are different which makes it interesting. Once the workshop was over I had customers coming to collect orders in the afternoon then a well earned rest 😁

Hand tied bouquet workshop.

Except I didn’t have a rest, I remembered that I went back out to the workshop to do some practice with a hand held posy. I gave it to my sister in law later that evening as she has had a difficult week 🥰

Sunday: Father’s Day here in the UK so we went out for breakfast with Shelley, Charlie and their families to The Old Shed, fabulous full English for the menfolk and Josh, I opted for pancakes with bacon and maple syrup, Flo had pancakes with berries and maple syrup, Shelley and Charlie went for the scrambled egg and avocado option. The place was seriously busy but the service was quick, the food was hot and delicious and we had a lovely time. We had a meander through the attached woodland afterwards, found the zip line and of course the men and Charlie couldn’t wait to get a have a go at that though they had to wait for the kids to have a go first 😂 Suitably fed and entertained we made our way back home 😁

Waiting and hoping for some more rain to arrive today, temps are still higher than average for the time of year and we really need some precipitation.

I need to call the eye hospital as my eyes have flared up again, actually what I think it that they didn’t quite heal and I should have continued with the steroid drops a little longer 🤷‍♀️

I signed up for an online course with Bex Partridge, a full dried flower course. I have her books and I have watched a workshop with her through one of my flowers groups before but I thought I would like to see her whole process as I can definitely learn more and it’s good to learn.

It rained in the evening, not much but enough to please the garden and me 😁

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Flowers, ducklings and thunderstorms.

Monday 5th June 2023: We have had wall,to wall blue sky over the weekend but today it was overcast, great for me because it means I can get on 😁 I had plenty flowers to cut this morning for quite a few orders tomorrow and Wednesday so that was the first job after the usual morning jobs.

Bucketfuls of flowers ready for making up bunches, bouquets and jam jar flowers for orders tomorrow.

Once I had done that I sat with a cuppa to practice making an animated motion post lol, I know, I had no idea what this was either but when I looked it up I thought it looked easy enough so I gave it a go.

Not a masterpiece but not bad for a first effort, hopefully you can play it 🤷‍♀️

Then as it was still overcast I thought I should work in the poly tunnel so I soaked the soil, dug in some blood, fish and bone and then planted up chrysanthemums and zinnia. The zinnia LOVE the heat so provided they get enough water they will be fine, the chrysanthemums not so much but I am trying out different planting places on things to see what happens. I tried delphinium in the tunnel to see if they would flower earlier than the outside ones, initially they started to flower but the cold early on in the year took them even though I tried to keep the flowers out of any draught. The plants were still fine themselves and continued to grow flowering at the same time as the outdoor plants so those will go back outside at the end of the year. No point pampering something that is going to do what it wants when it wants 😂

Inside them for some lunch and then back out to cut some flowers and foliage for something I want to have a go at, something different from my usual style. If it works out see picture below, if not it won’t be there 😜 Once those were cut and conditioning nicely it was time for a sit down for an hour.

The scent of this was amazing!

Tuesday: It is positively not June weather today 🥶 I give up wondering what our weather is doing it has a mind of its own, flaming June, more like flaming cold. I think I rather over did the weeding and planting the last couple of days as my hand was pinging away last night, it is a little better this morning but I was up later than usual at 7.15! I had plenty to do this morning as well so I more or less got straight on with making up flower orders that were being collected later today, I also have an order for tomorrow which I have already made up. Then I spent a little time doing something for myself, practising different flowers like the picture above. I confess I did it then had to take it apart and redo it before I was happy enough with it but it turned out nicely in the end I think.

We have been losing the odd hen every day to the fox, they will be feeding cubs and so more likely to come out in the daytime to find food. I heard someone not far from us lost around 60 in one go when the fox dug in 😏 At the minute we are unable to get new hens there is an all round shortage of point of lay hens, we have customers waiting and we will need some to replace the ones taken but not until September we are told 🙄 We may end up cutting our egg selling days shorter than we thought if we lose many more, we are at the point where we are not too worried about replacing them and continuing with egg sales anyway, this might force our hand. With the cost of feeding, watering, housing (and egg box costs even though we get returns we still have to buy more) the hens we just about break even, if you add in our time we definitely don’t so basically we (and by that I mean John 😂) is working for free and let’s face it who is really prepared to do that 🤔

Once all flowers had been collected it was time for a sit down but first dig something out of the freezer for dinner tonight. If anyone has a foolproof way of organising a chest freezer please tell me 😂 I know I had some lime and chilli chicken in there somewhere but I cannot find it 🤷‍♀️ The task was even more difficult than usual because my hand is not good with temperature extremes hence why I am still not doing the washing up. There must be a skill to it somewhere, bear in mind that often I have small packets of various bits and pieces that I have saved or picked and frozen for later use so not bags and boxes at all. I did find that using sacks in the bottom worked well, one with frozen fruit one with veg and one with meat but that does not cover a plethora of other oddities like frozen herbs (tiny portions) fruit cubes, passata, hazelnuts, cheese, eggs and even chocolate I think 😂 Knowing what I have in there is not the problem but finding it definitely is 😜

Wednesday: Johns 60th birthday, initially he was going to go to work but I said I don’t know why you don’t have the day off so he did. He did the morning jobs then had a shower and changed into his best clothes, meanwhile I still had work to do and he ended up following me around wondering what to do 😂 I was waiting for a delivery at lunchtime and once that arrived we took flowers down to the pub and had lunch while we were there. Back home just in time for a free delivery of woodchip, love free woodchip 🥰 I am on a database for anyone doing tree work in the area, they get in touch and ask if I want it once it’s chipped, then they deliver it. This was all willow and poplar so great stuff, he asked if I wanted laurel and holly, not chipped I said but if you cut it off whole I will definitely have it especially nearer wreath making time lol. It’s been a good day as Shelley took some flowers to her friend who was working, the manager saw them and asked where they were from, he then contacted me and wants weekly flowers plus extras now and again plus interested in me doing activities with the residents from time to time, brilliant 😁 Various family came and went over the course of the afternoon and evening and John has some rather nice events to look forward to including an F1 hospitality day and Dr Who escape room experience 😂 the second will push him outside of his usual boundaries 😜

I have had to put the sprinkler on the garden this evening, it is so dry the ground is starting to crack up and we have temps of 26c coming at the weekend apparently. It might bring thunderstorms and rain with it but you can bet your bottom dollar if we need it we won’t get it!

Thursday: I have a few orders this weekend as well as Friday flowers so I needed to get flowers and other material cut first thing. Once that was done I really needed to tidy up the flower room a little, some flowers I haven’t use or have gone past their best either get composted or the petals removed for drying. Some I had already decided to hang up to dry I just needed to get and do it so those jobs are all done and I am ready for the next lot. I need to be cutting every other day now to keep the flowers producing and if they are not being used fresh they get dried. Charlie came over with instructions and some of Oscars things as he is staying over tonight (not sure how that is going to go 😂) Shelley is having him this afternoon then bringing him after tea and Charlie and Macca are going to a wedding. I have the twins first though so I will quite possibly be knackered by bedtime 😜

It is all very well having an irrigation system set up but we really really need some rain, there is nothing quite like rain to saturate the ground and give things some oomph again. I am at the point where the things that survive stay and the things that don’t do not get replaced as I think this is the way things are going to stay, possibly (probably) even get worse 🙄 We can only do what we can and there is no point fighting against it we have to work round it but watching the news and the pollution in the USA from wildfires in Canada ought to make us take better notice of what is ahead. And just as I type scientist’s have confirmed that ‘el Nino’ has begun 😏

Friday: Oscar was a superb guest and I even got smiles in the morning, he was up at 5ish had pre breakfast, played, pooped and then went back to sleep at 7.30 for another 45 mins. That gave me just enough time to dash out and water the front and put the eggs out. Once he was awake again I put him in the pushchair and we went out to the paddock to do the horses water, take the rubbish down to the bins and feed the torts. A not of playtime and then Charlie and Macca came to collect him, he had been fine but on seeing them he suddenly realised they hadn’t been here and burst into tears 🥰 Sam and the twins came mid morning for an hour or so and then once they had gone I had to get on with making up some flower bunches to put into the flower shed for Friday flowers.

In the evening we went to get a bit of shopping and on our return a wild duck and lots of ducklings were in the driveway. Last year a duck, and I assume it is the same duck, walked all the way along our lane and down the hill to the local pond with her ducklings, it’s over a mile and she was escorted by a local lady for some of the way. This year after she left our drive she decided to go across the fields, I hope she made it. The evening wasn’t over and I had to make up a tribute heart for a customer collecting in the morning, a bit of watering and finally it was bedtime.

Saturday: Up at 5am and outside to get some watering on and cut some flowers for more orders and market bunches. The next job was to make up 20 jam jars for an order to deliver this afternoon and then a flower arrangement for the local church. It was very hot today and I was hoping for a decent thunder storm and some good rain but what we got was plenty of noise and a wetting. Everything is seriously dry, I put in soaker hoses for irrigation but didn’t bank in no rain for weeks and then temps of 30c in early June 🙄 Being on clay the water gets sucked up so quickly even on raised beds that it barely helps the plants when it is so hot and dry. Once the jam jars were delivered we had a couple of hours rest before getting on with other jobs. Back into the flower room to make up bunches of flowers and jam jars to put out for sale and also prep flowers for drying. All the while I have had the sprinkler on and moving it round every hour or so, I can’t rely on waiting for rain or I will have no flowers left.

Tribute flowers, seasonal, local, compostable, Shilton
Heart tribute flowers for a grave
Jam jars boxed and ready to deliver

It seems after talking to a few people that we missed the downpour that was happening all around 😂 literally we had a wetting that was it, no downpour that would soak the ground, barely enough to make any difference whatsoever 🙄

Sunday: Up early and gardening in my pjs 😁 watering, some cutting back and some weeding before it gets too hot. I have come to the conclusion we are in totally the wrong location to try growing anything 😂 no wonder it is always a battle 😜 The rain moves round us, the sun beats down on us, the clay and brash soak up all moisture it’s surprising I can grow anything really!

Once we had dropped off the flowers to the church we went to a nursery to look for some specific plants. I found a few but there were still some eluding me so we set off for a garden centre. We got a bit lost in the country lanes but it was a nice morning and eventually ended up where we wanted to be. As we pulled up I spotted my brothers truck and found him his wife and my mum having breakfast lol. We ordered coffee and cake as we were five mins too late for the breakfast menu. I still couldn’t find the plants I was looking for, salvia amistad seems to have dropped off the face of the garden centres this year 🤷‍♀️ I lost mine in the winter wet and cold, I had some on order but the order was cancelled and despite looking I have not been able to locate any as yet. I also wanted some white astrantia which is proving to be difficult to find in stock anywhere. Nevertheless I did come back with a few plants so I satisfied my wants for now 😜

It was hot in the afternoon so we stayed inside and relaxed, it is Sunday after all. I spent my time watching the live rain radar and was thrilled when I realised we were actually going to getting some rain, we also got thunder and lightning galore, love a good storm and the smell is fabulous. A strange thing happened when it started thundering though, John started sneezing, loads, I mean 20/30 sneezes so I looked it up and it is a thing, who knew 🤷‍♀️ it is called thunderstorm asthma, you learn something new every day. I am hoping we get a fair bit more rain as I need those tanks to fill up but I will take what we have had so far, it will energise the plants at least. I think we are a very long way short of restoring ground water levels though but I am happy for now.

I am still having a little trouble with my hand but no where near as much as I have had. I still don’t have full grip and I still can’t tolerate temperature extremes and using it for any length of time starts it jangling but hopefully day by day it gets back to normal.

Have a lovely week x

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Weather – variable, Flower sales – great, to do list – getting there 😜

Monday17th April 2023: I had one of those mornings where all the things that were bugging me just had to be done and there was no putting it off any longer. It’s not that I put them off just that other jobs jump the queue 😂 So this morning I hoovered the boot room and washed down all the side areas, it gets dusty and dirty with the cats and dogs in there but when it’s constantly raining there is no point even trying to clean it because it won’t stay like that for more than ten minutes. It probably still won’t stay very clean but I couldn’t put up with it any longer, then there was the fridge to clean out, things lurking in the back and half used things sitting on the shelves, all clean and tidy again. I managed to smash my favourite tea mug while I was wiping down the side ☹️ so I then had to hoover the kitchen floor which also needs a wash but as the wet just gets walked right in I only want to do it when we have a dry period 😜 I cleaned the bathroom and emptied the wash basket, I also need to wash a few extra things for our holiday, my hat for instance. There were things to put away in their right place things that just get put down somewhere and left for a few weeks 😬 I feel less stressed when these jobs have left my head because they are done ✔️

The weather is cloudy and not at all spring like but that suits me fine as long as it’s not raining though the air is damp with no sun shining through. I have a few flowers to do for customers this week, some today but mostly at the end of the week and then there are Friday flowers of course, they sell quickly most of the time and as the growth season gets under way there will be many more flowers and so many more to put out which will be fabulous.

John bought home a second hand commercial freestanding sink and drainer which we had found locally, we got it all cleaned up (it wasn’t too bad just some grease on a couple of the legs) and go that in the flower hut. They have a deeper sink so much better for getting the buckets in, it is difficult in a shallow sink to get the taller buckets in and get the tap over the top. It will only be used to fill the buckets and give them a swill so didn’t need to be anything too fancy. Flowers being picked up this evening and then I have an online meeting later tonight.

Tuesday: I keep thinking it’s Wednesday 🤷‍♀️ I have flowers to do for Thursday and thought I better get cutting ready for conditioning then realised it’s only Tuesday 🙄 The morning started badly with me waking up with pink eye and then later dropping a box of eggs as I was taking them out to the shed 😝 Maybe I should just sit quietly today 😂 I know I won’t though as the sun is trying to make an appearance, it still feels a tad cold out but it’s only 9am so if it stays out it will warm up to a beautiful spring day hopefully.

It is three years today that Dad passed away, where does the time go and how come it goes by faster the older you get 🤔

I spent a large part of the day weeding, Shelley called in and also got stuck in helping me with the never ending weed harvest 😂 I know you can eat a lot of them and I have made food from them before now but mostly they feed other animals or get composted. I also took some cuttings from a sedum and dug up some campanula seedlings and potted those up, getting free plants for another day is money saving and satisfying.

Wednesday: It is Mia’s birthday today, a whole seven years old, oh to be seven again lol. We will be popping over to see her later after she finishes school.

I am hoping it will be dry enough to get the towels washed and on the line today 🤞🙄 They are just finishing the cycle as I type, I have a hearty beef stew in the slow cooker along with a multitude of yummy veg so once the towels are out I am free to get on with the rest of my day. I will be lifting and cutting flowers today ready for Friday flowers plus a few other orders I have tomorrow and Friday. Once the season is underway I hopefully will have flowers available all week long but at this time of year I concentrate them to the end of the week. This way I don’t end up with flowers I haven’t sold and therefore money wasted.

I got another brew on the go yesterday, comfrey tea 😁 comfrey grows like mad here and so best to make good use of it by steeping it in water for a few weeks. It makes a stinking tea but it is great plant food so worth the effort, sustainable, natural plant food 🥰 Fill a bucket with the leaves, cover with water, cover the bucket (because of the smell) and leave for three weeks then use it at a 10:1 ratio the 10 being water. It has a high nutrient content due to the deep tap root being able to access deeper soils, high in potassium and nitrogen, it can be used as a spray (foliar) feed or watered onto the soil promoting good strong growth and good fruiting/flowering.

Having sung Biscuits praises saying she doesn’t try and get out (famous last words) she has got out three days running the little s**t 😂 The electric tape is up and clicking away so I know it’s on, I think she is literally climbing through the post and rail fencing 🙄 So plan b is put into action 😝 She is fenced off inside the smallest paddock we have so I lure Jack across with the showing of tasty hay and shut the gates at either side of the paddock. I undo the electric fenced off area and let them both roam the small paddock, the hopeful outcome will be that Jack helps to graze it right off and then he will go into the paddock next door while Biscuit stays in the eaten off one. Every now and then we will have to put Jack in there to help keep the grass down as it is growing well now. This is the plan, plans do not always go how they should, watch this space 👀 by the time I finish sorting this out it is lunchtime.

Over to see Mia after school to celebrate her birthday with her. I left the water on in the tunnel while I was away and this year I and using the timer on my watch to remind me to turn the water off again, so far that is working well though I did have to re set it twice while we were out as I had only set it for an hour.

Thursday: A sunny day with a stiff breeze making it feel cooler. I had a busy morning doing flowers, I have some orders going to customers today, some tomorrow and then the Friday flowers and jam jars. It is surprising how long it takes to do them all, it’s after 1pm and I have only just finished having been doing them all morning. Normally I would do them this evening but I have some deliveries to make after the twins have gone home and then it’s pool night for John so I have to squeeze it in-between the two 😝

Friday: Up before the alarm this morning to get things done, flowers needed to go out early for customers coming first thing, the bunches needed wrapping and the jam jar flower needed tying loosely. I was hoping to get it done before the alarm went off and John got up but he decided to get up early too 😝 He had to stand and eat his toast as I had commandeered the kitchen table, once the flower hut is ready this will no longer be a problem. I had early customers coming for eggs and honey to so I had to make sure all those were ready and out in the shed. My day is going to be like that today, I have an appointment at 9 Shelley is coming over around 10.30 to walk through things that she will be looking after while we are away, I have customers coming to collect flowers at other times of the day and I have someone coming to collect lambing equipment I sold online.

The weather was lovely yesterday and today it’s not! Colder and wet again urrgghh there is just no consistency to the weather patterns at the minute. On the sunny days you think ‘ooo Spring has sprung’ and then back to ‘oh it’s winter again’ 😂 it does not make life easy for growing things either, the fluctuation in temperatures in the greenhouse and poly tunnels confuse the plants and seedlings and things growing outside are trying but progress is slooooow. Hey Ho no two years are ever the same so at least we are used to ‘winging it’ 😜 All we can do is try our best.

Locally grown cut flowers, British grown cut flowers, flowers from the farm, Shilton, Oxon

Saturday: Foggy and cold start to the day, it took a good few hours for the sun to burn it off but when it finally did it was not a bad day though it ended with rain and was cold again. First thing this morning we went to town as I needed a good rain coat for our holiday ✔️ then stop to get some shopping ✔️ once home I needed to pick rhubarb and then take that along with flowers down to the pub ✔️ once back I spent an hour or so in the greenhouse potting on plants and then I had the twins for a few hours while Sam and Luke took Mia out for her birthday treat. They were very good and I had them picking all the dandelion heads off the lawn and feeding them to the torts. Then George helped me to dig up dandelions in the pathways, I think he thoroughly enjoyed that especially the great big ones. I seem to have an awful lot of them this year they were growing everywhere and in order to knock them back a bit I needed to dig them up. Not all of them obviously, I have left some smaller ones and I didn’t dig any out of the lawn they can stay and just be mown every now and then. They got hungry and we went inside for lunch and stayed in for the next hour as the sun went in and it got cold outside again. Once they had been collected I was straight back out on the dandelion mission while John cut the lawn. As I said in the beginning the temps dropped and the rain came 🙄 Joping for a half decent day tomorrow 😬

Sunday: It was, for the most part, a decent day 😁 the weather conditions were just about right for me and so I spent most of the time in the greenhouse potting on or pricking out seedlings. John was busy having a bonfire at the back and tidying up. Sam came over with the children, a friend and the friends daughter who goes to riding lessons with Mia. They spent some time grooming the horses then saddled them up for rides around the paddock, everyone, horses and children were very well behaved except Lucie who by all accounts played in the horses water bucket 😂 and then had to strip off because she was soaking wet, you gotta love a spirited carefree child 🥰

We went round to Mums later in the afternoon and we were there when the national test alarm sounded on our phones. Mums went off and then around 30 seconds later mine went off, apparently lots of people didn’t get it at all so it’s lucky it was a test signal and not the real thing 😝 We had a discussion about what exactly the alarm might sound for, we don’t have tsunami, we have fires but nowhere near the scale of some countries, I suppose flash flooding might trigger it but I am guessing the flood would be quicker than the alarm 🤷‍♀️ chemical leaks or explosions might well be on the list but they would be localised as would many threat to life situations such as a gunman on the loose. We concluded that a meteor strike or nuclear attack were what it is intended for 🤔 Which begs the questions, do they know something?

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Is Spring ever going to arrive 🤷‍♀️

Monday 10th April 2023: Bank holiday Monday and it’s raining what a surprise 😂 can’t really complain though we have had some nice weather and at least the tanks are collecting rainwater for the animals and the garden.

A comment has made me think a lot about the British flower revival and availability. Let me say first that I initially spent six months researching British grown flowers how/what/when and have learnt a lot more during the last year as well. I am also aware that some in the floristry industry might feel threatened by the success of British flowers but there is no need. Firstly there is room for everyone and secondly the British flowers revival is not driven by a ‘them and us’ attitude, from everything I read and people I interact with it is driven by caring for the planet and a love of flowers and yes there is also a business to be made but everyone has to earn a living somehow. So if you are a florist reading this hello 👋 it’s good to have you here and working together great things can be achieved to lessen the impact on our planet. There is a fabulous independent florist called Winnie & Olive who only sell British flowers and foliage, 100% all year round so it is doable 🥰 The British flower wholesalers have reported a huge increase in sales this year already, a sure sign that more and more florists are getting onboard. I’d agree that it is difficult for someone who has always done things one particular way to change but give yourself the freedom to do so and see where it takes you. It is just about relearning and there are plenty of people out there willing to give advice, social media is awash with information, oh and if you want to go floral foam free there is plenty of information in that department too, including a growing army of church flower arrangers 🥰

We got plenty done today and made good progress with the flower room. I spent some time in the greenhouse and John some time doing something, not sure what 😂 but just before midday he said we were ready to go and get flooring so off we went to the DIY shop and bought flooring whoop. Quick pit stop for a bite to eat and coffee before returning home and laying the flooring. We were three quarters of a way through and late into the day when we ran out of underlay 😜 A quick ask round and my brother had some in his garage so we went over there to collect it along with a large table base that we will be using for the main work area. Obviously we stopped for a cuppa and a natter and returned home and unloaded by which time it was 9pm and time for a sit down before bed. Oh yes it was very flipping windy today, gusts of up to 40mph 🙄

Tuesday: The weather started off ok this morning a touch cold maybe but dry, I got some washing on the line and then a second lot in the machine, did some hoovering and tidying bits away and put the second lot of washing on the line. Then I spent some time making up an arrangement I had seen online, I wanted to see how well it worked in reality, I changed it a little but the mechanics work well. Lunchtime and I sat down with a cuppa and some toast and then the heavens opened full pelt 🙄 I ran outside and collected the washing as quickly as I could but I still got pretty wet ☹️ and it was cold to boot 🥶 Shelley called in with Josh and Flo for a cuppa and a catch up and then John arrived home just as they were about to go, seems like the day went really quickly.

Wednesday: It’s 8am and I am annoyed already 😂 I got up, the sun was out though it’s cold, I looked at the weather app 0% chance of rain until 10am then rain and high winds. So I get everything done, rubbish out, feed the animals, breakfast, sort out flower buckets, put the eggs out not necessarily in that order but you get my drift. I am ready by 7.55 to go out and cut flowers, I go for a wee quickly and I can hear rain on the roof! 😡 that was not supposed to arrive for another couple of hours 😝 I know it April and it’s shower month but seriously the rain yesterday was awful, the high winds the day before were awful and we have at least today and tomorrow with the same wall to wall forecast 🙄 After that John tells me it is going up to 21 degrees, give me a break, I would like some normal settle weather please if the universe is listening ☺️ The plan was to cut tulips, narcissi and anything else that looks ready, if I cut it this morning then the weather can do it’s worst because I will be doing jobs inside while the storm is raging outside.

Well it’s 10am and the sun is shining 😂 bloody weather apps! When there was a break (or what I thought would be a break) in the rain I dashed out and cut tulips, dicentra and narcissi plus some foliage ready for the flowers on Friday. They will have a good 24 hours conditioning and time to dry out slowly, if I left it until tomorrow and it rains all day that would be more difficult so it is a case do it when you feel it is right. I have also spent some time on the phone (waiting 🙄) to finalise some details of our up coming holiday 🥰

The wind picked up a bit 🙄 blowing a hoolie lol. I sorted out some lamb feeding bits that we will no longer be using and put those up for sale, I had to give them a wash down first as they have been stored for a good few years. Next job was to put back together a bookcase my sister was getting rid of, it is for the workshop and I haven’t decided yet if it will have books on it or baskets for keeping things in.

Thursday: The weather is good enough for me today, dry and intermittent cloud 😁 it was a busy morning. After all the usual jobs the next thing was to sort out the flowers I cut yesterday, also sort some I still had waiting to hang for drying. Once that was done it was outside to cut rhubarb and take that down to the pub, it was a pleasant walk down and back again. When I got back Dave arrived with some more honey and we had a chat about a few things that we will probably be doing in a couple of months time. Introduction to bee keeping workshops and as time goes on maybe even full courses plus we talked about charcoal making and possible workshops for that as well, ooo it’s all going on 🥰 In-between all that it was answering messages about flower bunches and bouquets, looks like it will be a good week. The flowers here are really getting going now, the tulips are coming up beautifully as are the narcissus, following closely behind are the allium and everything is beginning to burst into leaf (still a couple of things I am waiting to see if they survived) I did sow some seeds on a trial basis, the trial being to see if they actually come up before sowing more 🙄

I also ordered some spring bulbs today! Yep I have got my order in already otherwise if you leave it too late you can’t get what you actually want. I couldn’t get my head around using bulbs in cut flowers because the bulbs get discarded, the reason for that is because once the flower is cut there is no way to make energy to send back down to the bulb so it won’t flower the following year. You can cut the stem and leave some foliage behind and although it might flower the following year it will be a smaller flower with shorter stem. My plan though is not to compost all the bulbs but to leave them somewhere for a couple of years and see what they do. I have an area in the garden that is suitable under a sycamore tree and have already begun to ‘dump’ bulbs there. One of two things will happen, firstly absolutely nothing and they will either rot away or get eaten or secondly I might end up with an area full of flowers 🤷‍♀️ While I was online and as John came home we discussed what we needed to make the top of the table and the work surfaces (unbanded, new scaffold boards) and ordered that as well. I feel like to today has been a productive day and I still have flowers to make up this evening 🥰

Friday: Fridays are always a bit frantic lol, lots of messages back and forth, flower collections and social media to keep an eye on. Then there is the record keeping of what, when, where, who for, I had deliveries arriving today mostly for farm activities and kitting out the flower hut (that’s what I am going to call it) I also tend to spend Fridays working out any future workshops, planting, and doing relevant posts, it can be quite exhausting and sometimes I don’t know if I am coming or going 😂 but it is all enjoyable.

John has mostly been home today doing the last few bits to the inside of the flower hut, I can then move everything in there and start using the space to create, once the wood arrives for the table top that is 🥰

Saturday: It is Charlottes birthday today and also one of my sisters, we worked all day up to the point where it was time to go out and visit birthday people. Most of the work was on the flower hut, we had put some doors in and then decided that they were not a great fit and so took them out and put some different ones in. Both lots were bought second hand from the same person so apart from time the cost was nothing. We popped into my sisters then went up to Charlottes for paella and cake plus watch the grand national while we were there. It’s a shame about the protestors, I would always say that if you have ever worked with horses then half a ton of horse cannot be made to move if it doesn’t want to let alone run. The horses are bred for running and looked after far better than a lot of people are, holding up the race is not good for the horses themselves as they are full of adrenaline at that point and waiting to get going.

Sunday: Another day another birthday so we will be out again later today. Meanwhile we are busy getting as much done as we can, me in the garden, potting up plants, taking cuttings, planting plants into the ground and John working on the outside of the flower hut. There was metal profile sheeting on the outside but the powder coating had deteriorated over the years so it has been taken off and will be replaced with rough feather edge boarding which should look nice.

While we were out late afternoon John asked if I’d let the pony out today, no why, oh it was out in the field earlier, um maybe you should have told me when we were there 🙄 On our return I went out to the field to find her chomping away on the nice grass, somehow the electric clip had come off the fence. It was probably during the windy weather as a bucket that I used to cover the extension lead had rolled off catching the clip I imagine. She is pretty good so it would have taken her a couple of days to pluck up courage to get out and she was definitely still in there this morning lol.

That is another week done, I have done a lot but I have a lot to do, this time of year the job list gets very long and I need to get ready for our holiday to. By the time we get on holiday we will definitely need it and we physically have to go away, we can’t have a week off and stay at home otherwise we never rest 😂

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Flower arrangements, Easter weekend & some rather nice weather 🌞

Monday 3rd April 2023: It’s early and there was a frost but it feels like a typical spring day today, the sun is shining and melting off the frost pretty quickly. I am not sure it will be very warm but it’s not raining 😁 we have now had a couple of days without rain thank goodness as it was getting beyond funny. So it looks like I will be able to get outside and do something useful in the garden, no idea what yet as I haven’t gathered my thoughts entirely. It is also the Easter holidays for the children and a short week as we head towards the Easter weekend 🐰

I quickly whizzed round with the hoover and polish, cleaning is one of the tricky to find moments here 😂 When it’s raining there is no point because animals and humans just track muddy wet feet in and all efforts then become a waste of time. When it’s a fine day I just want to get outside and get on, but I do it for my own sanity, it is nice to have somewhere clean and fresh to come into when you have been busy outside all day. I am waiting for the days when I can get the windows thrown open and blankets and cushion covers out on the line to dry but there is no enough heat in the sun to do the job just yet.

It’s 3pm and I have spent most of the day outside in the garden, weeding and digging up perennial weeds especially stingers. I know they are great for wildlife but for the children not so much, you can guarantee if they trip over it’s always into stingers. I also spent a bit of time putting down weed membrane on the tricky area, I was unable to decide what to do for the best because there are things growing that that I want to keep but other things are failing and the weeds are rampant. So I dug up the bits I am keeping, cut back all the suckers from the apricot tree and covered over with weed membrane. It will probably stay for the rest of the year even though there is asparagus under there, it was usually a bit spindly anyway. Then Charlie and Oscar came so I stopped for a cuppa with them before sweeping off winter debris from the decking and sweeping out cobwebs from the pirate ship. I tried to start the lawn mower but it’s the new one and I haven’t used it before John usually does it so I have no idea how it starts 😂 The grandchildren are having an Easter egg hunt on Friday so I thought I would tidy up the areas that they will probably be looking around plus the jobs needed doing anyway. Inside for a quick sit down before going back out to get more work done.

At 3.30 I looked after Josh and Flo for a couple of hours then while John was feeding the animals and the dinner was cooking I cut the lawn. A good full day today I reckon, its nearly 7pm so dinner, wash up and sit down for what will be left of the evening, pooped.

Tuesday: I went to bed earlier than usual last night as I was so tired lol. This morning it’s a frosty start again but the sun is shining so hopefully another lovely day ahead and I can get a fair bit done outside. I have been holding off planting some things up but I think now is a good time to get them into the ground the trouble is there is always so many other things to do as well.

This morning I signed up to be part of a study group for Cambridge university, it’s a trial being funded by Lupus UK. The study is focused on mental health in long term illness and there are four groups and each will be doing something different, the forth is a control group that won’t be doing anything. I won’t know which group I am in until May but it will be interesting to take part and to see the results at the end. I think that most of the time you are just trying to get by and so are not aware of your mental health it’s just part and parcel of your life and your illness (even if you are stable) it’s not until you fill in a questionnaire and you analyse thoughts that you realise that things could be better 🤷‍♀️ On the whole I think I have a positive mental attitude but there are times and areas when that dips and during a flare it can dip pretty low but luckily I have not had one for a couple of years now (touch wood 🪵)

I spent the morning sorting out plants that had been potted up over winter, some went out for sale, some that never made it went to the compost heap and the rest I tidied up and are nicely stored in the cold frames. That meant plenty of empty pots and trays to be tidied away and sweeping up to do. I just finished when Shelley came with Josh and Flo quickly followed by Sam, Mia, George and Lucie, Charlie and Oscar arrived a little later. The weather was lovely enough to sit outside in the garden and the children had picnic lunch on a blanket. While the children were busy playing Shelley and I got the netting onto the top of the fruit cage and secured that in place, that’s another job done. I am hoping to keep the birds out entirely this year, I can never see where they get in but hopefully this year they can’t and I will have a good haul of raspberries, blackcurrants and strawberries 😋 Lucie was asking me where the strawberries and tomatoes are, I explained that I had to grow them first and it was too early yet 😂 I do love it that their memories will be of eating tomatoes and soft fruit from Nanas garden 🥰 We also saw a herd of large deer in the field next door, they are getting quite frequent as they were there yesterday as well.

Wednesday: I have showered, breakfasted, hung out the washing, put the eggs out, done the washing up, fed the dogs and cats and watered in the greenhouse all before 9am. I am now waiting for it to warm up just a little before going out to pick rhubarb and cut flowers now that there are some ready to cut 😁

I have been thinking about the subtle changes in the flowers and foliage as we move from week to week. I used to think only in seasons, seed sowing season, growing season, harvesting season and resting season which of course all roughly follow Spring, Summer, Autumn and Winter. Since closely watching flowers on a daily basis though I came to realise that there are micro seasons too, they are very subtle changes but they are definitely there. I think I have mentioned it causally before but the more I watch the more I learn, there is a slow decline of early spring bulbs but at the same time slowly growing late spring bulbs and flowers are getting under way, the same can be said for early flowering foliage. I have recently read a book that confirms my observations and the lady that wrote it notes that she can identify three sections within each season. The ancient Japanese apparently identified 72 micro seasons in a year so I really must up my game and watch more lol.

I had a busy morning cutting flowers, prepping them for conditioning and then picking rhubarb, doesn’t sound a lot but it was a good couple of hours in all. Then Charlie arrived at lunchtime with Oscar and I looked after him for a few hours while Charlie went for an appointment. Nursery rhymes, naps (for Oscar not me) and feeding time all went smoothly, once Charlie had picked Oscar back up it was time to sort out the flowers. Making up bouquets and market bunches plus jam jar flowers also takes longer than it sounds but it is never boring 🥰 the smells are amazing and the result of what I have put together at the end are beautiful 🤩 A quick sit down and something to eat before going off to this months flower club meeting.

Flower club was fab, I had no idea what we were going to make the title was ‘tripods and test tubes’ 🤷‍♀️ It was somewhat laborious winding string around canes and test tubes but I think the outcome was great and in my head I was already up scaling it 😂 big rustic branches and tubular vases would would a treat for an occasion I think.

Thursday: Friday flowers are going out a day early this week so I was up early with plenty of jobs to do before getting the flowers out at 8am. I was on a multitasking mission which included getting something out for dinner, using the chop saw to cut wood for arrangement orders, drilling a piece of wood for the Easter tree and getting that set up, making up more jam jar flowers as they sold out quickly, cutting foliage for the arrangements I need to make, nailing the hazel whips to the wood and sorting out the dishes to be filled with moss for the arrangement, meeting customers and handing over their flower orders as well as all the usual jobs. Never a dull moment round here and no two days are ever the same.

I spent a couple off hours in the afternoon putting the foliage in the arrangements that are being collected on Saturday, I can’t do it tomorrow as we have a busy day. The twins arrived for their Thursday session while Mia went swimming, I get them their tea while they are here but George is a bit under the weather and not eating much unless it’s custard or yoghurt 😂

Good Friday: It’s a bank holiday today and we had a day of family fun. After getting the morning jobs done the grandchildren arrived for an Easter egg hunt in the garden which was thoroughly enjoyed by everyone. The weather was beautiful, blue skies and sunshine, I doubt it would have been as much fun in the rain! We sat in the garden for a good couple of hours eating hot cross buns and Easter cakes that Charlie made. After everyone left I added the flowers to the arrangements that had been ordered for tomorrow, a quick sit down before getting the afternoon jobs done and the off out for another family party. A farm outbuilding had been transformed into an exceptionally great pub called The Jolly Welshman for my niece’s partner it is his 30th birthday this week, bbq, beer on tap, bar snacks, optics and great furnishing they pulled off an epic feat there. We didn’t stay too late and we’re home by 10pm as the dogs needed letting out but we had a brilliant day.

Oscars first Easter 🐣
Inside The Jolly Welshman which was a farm building transformed!
A rare picture of John 😂
The Jolly Welshman himself, happy 30th birthday Alex 🎂

Saturday: Up and about quite early, it was frosty but again the sun is shining, oh and last night the moon was amazing, full, low and yellowy/orange and it could still be seen first thing this morning too. John did the animals and went off to get feed, I got the eggs sorted and did the last bits to the arrangements that were being picked up this morning. These gave me sleepless nights thinking about how best to do them and I don’t think I will be doing any more 😂 but I enjoyed the challenge and learnt along the way so that’s a win.

The various stages of the arrangements for collection today.

Once collected we went out to a local landscaping centre to look for some plants, didn’t have much luck and only found one that I wanted so we then drove to a garden centre. I found a couple more of the specifics I was looking for but still not all of them, I lost a few over winter and am trying to replace them but it’s proving difficult so maybe I will have to do without them for now. My runner beans were old seed and they are not amounting to anything, I considered buying plants but when I looked at the state of them for the price I decided to buy new seed instead 😜 Half of the plant trays had damping off problems so it didn’t look good for the rest of them in the tray 🙄 I looked at grafted tomato plants too but figured I will wait to see if my seeds sprout and if not there are usually plenty for sale locally. I just feel that germination is really slow this year, not sure why, maybe I say that every year then end up with too many plants 😂

I spent a bit of time in the garden, John fix the cracked fitting on the outside water pipe, we had to turn it back off in the week when we discovered it was leaking but we are all good now. I watered the ranunculus and anemone in the poly tunnel, the anemone are producing well and the ranunculus should start soon. I have plenty of tulips coming to the fore now lol probably too many but that’s better than not enough. Other plants are just starting to put on tiny growth and I am still waiting to see if some have made it or not. One or two of the dahlias are sprouting, they will stay in the greenhouse until the risk of frost has passed and then go out. Some are still in the ground and I won’t know if they have made it for a few weeks yet.

Sunday: Busy, busy, busy day, I have spent most of the day in the garden planting up everything that can be planted, some in the poly tunnel and some in the garden. If we are going to have rain I might as well make the most of the dry day today and the watering in by Mother Nature tomorrow. It was supposed to be sunny and blue skies but that didn’t appear luckily for me 😁 it meant it was a perfect day to be dong whatever needed doing and that included lots of weeding. I did spend an hour or so helping John, he was setting up the water tanks ready to catch the rain that is coming and needed me to help get the tanks up on the stands (easier said than done 😜) I also hoovered out the boot and the back seat of the car to remove the hay from last week 😝 I sowed some runner bean seeds, the ones that I had saved from a couple of years ago failed miserably so fresh seed was needed. I will try harder to save seed this year and make sure I use it the following year instead of leaving it. A few of the seeds I sowed last week are starting g to appear, the dwarf bean, broad bean and peas have tiny shoots in the greenhouse. Indoors the courgettes are beginning to sprout but no sign of the tomatoes yet 🙄 We are away for a week at the end of the month and I need to make sure that everything is under control before I go which is another reason to get as much in the ground as possible. Shelley is very capable at maintaining it all but not so confident with growing and transplanting not on this scale anyhow. Most veg plants won’t go in until I get back and I certainly won’t direct sow anything until I return. After 30 odd years of gardening I can tell the difference between a weed seed and a useful seed but it’s not fair to put that pressure on someone else!

John cut the front paddock with the ride on mower, too short of course 🙄 I did tell him to set the blades high but there is none so deaf as those that don’t want to hear 😬

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A lot of rain this week, rhubarb picking begins & birthdays galore this month 🎂

Monday 27th March 2023: Gosh the month is rattling along isn’t it 🙄 This morning the weather looks promising 🙄 dry and I can see the sun though it is a tad cold at 8am mind you the clocks went forward so it will feel like 7am until we adjust and so will the temps lol. Hopefully it will stay dry we could do with a break from the dank outlook so it feels a bit more like spring.

I picked rhubarb this morning to put out for sale, I love rhubarb season it the first of the home grown crops to become available in any quantity. I then thought the best place to be working this morning in on the front beds as the sun has come out. So I spent some time weeding and also sorting out the supports for the taller plants such as delphiniums, lupin and chrysanthemums. I soon realised I am going to need to start wearing a hat and sunscreen 🙄 that would be way too early for most people but I can already feel the effects of the sun on my head 😒 I have two small problem areas as it is at the minute and if I don’t cover up chances are I will lose the hair and have even more bald spots than I already have. All winter long I mostly forget that I have an issue with the sun 😂 I eagerly await some real sunshine and then can’t spend very long in it without cover 😂 such is life, there are worse things but it’s a real pain sometimes (well a lot of the time really) I retreated indoors to dig out hats have a cuppa and skim through my new reading material before heading back outside suited and booted.

It’s a fine day and it’s best to make the most of it so I have been outside the whole time until mid afternoon. I have weeded, planted up raspberry canes, cut down the pussy willow next to the house and bundled that up for later use, weeded some more (quite a lot more 😝) and cut back suckers from trees. The area with the apricot and cherry tree is a tricky area, the apricot tree sends suckers out all over the place, the comfrey has taken hold as have the stingers and every other weed mentionable. I have the thornless blackberry growing there and some asparagus but I think I have decided to dig up what I want to keep and try to suppress everything else under membrane for the remainder of the year and see if I can regain some control. I have no idea what else I can do with it otherwise, nature is reclaiming it 😂

The temptation is strong to just keep going but I am of an age when I recognise that I need to stop and rest, if I kept going it would be half hearted so better to re charge and do the job properly and besides I need a Nana nap 😂

Tuesday: A totally different day today, raining, grey, dank. I whizzed round and did some polishing, hoovering and tidying away before Charlie came and we went to Witney with Oscar for a quick look round and a coffee. I needed some black shoes for my upcoming holiday, I have to admit defeat to high heels 😂 and go for lower shoes with comfort these days. The problem is the choice is awful, I am pretty sure shoe manufacturers could do a whole lot better than either shoes that feel like planks of wood to wear or glorified slippers 😝 it seems not. Charlie stayed for a while to feed Oscar when we got back and then went home. I had been fighting off a headache all morning but it got worse in the afternoon so I had a lay down and fell asleep, that still didn’t cure it even with paracetamol although it was a little better. I didn’t get anything else done other than make the dinner.

Wednesday: Grey and dank again today, good job I made the most of Mondays weather. My headache has gone thank goodness, it means I can focus on the day ahead. The farrier is coming this morning and so is a delivery of flowers. I had a quick look round the garden this morning the bridal crown are almost ready to start cutting and the tulips just need to put some stem length on and then they should be good to cut. I have a couple of ranunculus flowers emerging 😁 and the snakehead are doing daintily well, I am hoping to get time to practise some vase arrangements this week at some point. On Monday while I was weeding I took a quite a few rooted pieces of Nepeta and popped those into a jar of water. Nepeta (cat mint) was one of the surprises in the cutting garden, it’s abundant once it gets going, cut and come again, it has lovely textured foliage and a glaucous leaf plus it can get quite tall making it one of the best fillers for bouquets and bunches in my opinion, there is the tiny pretty blue flower of course which add to its usefulness and on the nature side of things the bees absolutely love it, win, win.

The farrier came and Biscuit has laminitis ☹️ she has not had it since we have had her though she has had it in a previous life. Gutted that we have blotted our score card, she seems ok with it though, the way she ran around the paddock you would never know 😂 That then meant a scort round to dig out all the fencing stakes, tape and electric and rig up an electrified pen which she will probably remain in for the whole spring and summer 🙄 As we had finished the last of the big hay bales during the cold snap we had to get some more in. Sam took Johns car and went to get a couple of small bales, we now have a car covered in hay 😝

I had a few deliveries due today which all came at various times, I then went out to do a bit of tidying up and burn some rubbish before coming in to make a cup of tea, just about to sit down when another delivery arrived. Shelley called in and so did Charlie with Oscar.

It’s 7.30pm and the rain is ridiculous, it has been raining on and off all day and now belting it down. We lose signal on the tv when it’s really bad, I think the satellite has been there so long it is breaking down. The only reason we have a freesat box is so that John can record programmes as he refuses to pay 😝 it is becoming obsolete technology and I would get rid and pay but 🤷‍♀️

I have a zoom meeting tonight on pruning 😁 always up for learning whatever I don’t already know.

Thursday: Another dull, grey day with the threat of rain 🙄 Getting bored of it now, fat or famine as always! I have a funeral to attend later this afternoon but the rest of the day is mine to decide what to do, governed by the weather of course. We just need some drier, warmer days to pick up our spirits here which are ebbing to be honest.

I managed to miss the showers walking to and from the church but it did rain a fair amount in between. Does anyone else feel that everything is on hold? I just can’t move things forward with the garden at all and there does not look like much let up over the next few days in fact tomorrow looks horrendous 😝

Friday: No change in the awful weather and it’s playing havoc with growing seedlings. I have some in the greenhouse that came through lovey and then pfft, one colder night and they keeled over. This morning after doing Friday flowers I went into the greenhouse to see how things are going. Some successes, some failures but all very slow. I sowed a tray of cucumber, peppers and tomato but I have bought the tray indoors to get going, I am tempted to plug the propagators in just to get it all going but as I have no idea how the weather is going to go long term I am not sure if that is a good idea or not. The problem is with heat I can get good plants under way but when they get to a size that they should be transplanted it could still be cold and then where do I move them to 🤷‍♀️ I have a feeling with all this rain that the outdoor flowers are just all going to come at once so I end up with a glut rather than a slow succession, it seems like a no win situation at the minute.

Tulips are just beginning to flower outside and next year I think I will try growing some in the tunnel, the risk there is mice eating the bulbs, it’s a never ending guessing game 😂

I cut my contorted hazel branch ready for the Easter tree, it needs to dry out a little before I decorate it and get it on display, it has some wonderful lichen on it though which adds to its charm.

Just gone 1pm and ffs it’s hammering down 🙄 I need to walk down to the pub to take some flowers and told them I am waiting for a dry spot 😂 might be a while. I shut the door on the flower shed initially because of the rain then I re opened it and now the rain is blowing in that direction I imagine they will be soaked. Oh our green and pleasant land is green for a reason I know but seriously we have not had much let up for four days now.

Saturday: Well that was a different start to the day, it’s 1st April so All fools day but this was no joke. The whole (pretty much) of the next town along woke up to no water (the irony is not lost on me after all this rain) the messages started first with Charlie asking if we had water, we did and I told her to come over and get some if she needed it. Next I messaged on the family page to say the same as many have young children and babies plus everyone needs their morning brew right 😂 Then the phone calls and messages started for John, being a plumber he was the first port of call for some but there was nothing he could do 🤷‍♀️ It is Mums birthday 🥳 today but she was over at 7.30 to fill up some containers 😂 The social media is going mad with all the questions to which the reply from any utility as always is ‘we are investigating’ 😝 Normally it’s us with either no water, no electric or no internet so it’s nice to offer help to others for a change. What worries me is that people have no idea how to cope in these situations 🤷‍♀️ I have a back up plan for most things here, battery powered lights, a store of bottle water (enough to get us through a couple of days) and solar powered battery charging pack 🙄 though the lack of sun might be the downfall there. I also have water cleansing tablets just in case the water is off for a long time (admittedly that would be some kind of disaster situation) and stores of food that is rotated for an emergency situation. If needs be we could dig a compost loo and rig up an outdoor shower (warmer months only 😝) As I type at 9 am it is apparently all kicking off down at the supermarket over the bottled water! It pays to be a bit of a prepper I can tell you, who knows what is around the next corner.

On the upside it’s nearly 4pm and we have had no rain today yet, dare not speak too soon mind you as the sky looks iffy. We have had a rare day off today, still the usual jobs have to be done of course, feeding, egg collecting but other than that nothing else here on the farm. We have been to town as I needed to get some new black trousers for my holiday, coffee and cake out and then round to Mums to say happy birthday and have more cake 😁 There were plenty of family coming and going so we stayed a longer than planned but it’s nice to have time off.

Sunday: Another dry but cold day though the sun came out in the afternoon there was still a chill in the air. Plenty of jobs done in the morning including some seed sowing and rhubarb picking, John cleaned out the birds and his van 🙄 Then we went out for lunch at our local pub, delicious food at the Rose and Crown, after that it was round to Shelley and Martins to wish him happy birthday and have tea and cake 😁 Back home in time to do the animals and clock off for the day.

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1st day of Spring but not much warmth

Monday 20th March Officially the first day of Spring but still not much sign of any significant warmth during the day, we have the odd few hours but it is really putting things behind a bit. Having said that I have been busy so all is not lost, this morning I have got three more lots of soaker hose in place. I am determined that this is the year I nail the watering 😂 I rang John as I needed some stop ends for the hose and he couldn’t really get on with his day for various reasons so he came home and connected it all up for me. We tried out one lot which was fine, John went off to do some other jobs and I tried the one in the big tunnel, I got wet 😝 the connectors are all different and one of them just pinged off giving me a soaking 🙄 I have also been sorting out the fruit cage yesterday and today, the top netting has rotted so I got all off, measured up and ordered new. I cut back all the canes from the autumn raspberries as it is now time to do that and checked the summer raspberries. I have lost most of those 😏 the cold weather has killed off a lot and they are one thing that has succumbed also my fig tree and the cherry bush I think. The latter two I will leave for now and see what happens but I don’t hold out much hope. I ordered new summer raspberry canes both the red and yellow varieties oh yes I am not sure my olive has made it either. I have been weeding in the fruit cage and there are a lot of bindweed roots lurking under pots and so everything that comes out of there will be burnt and not go onto the compost heap. I now need to empty all the pots with dead raspberry canes but I want to save the compost providing there is no sign of bindweed 👀 The autumn raspberries are in the ground but the summer ones are all in pots as there is no room to put them into the ground. Hopefully I can get that all sorted before the new canes arrive, I might put some in the ground elsewhere just so that I can hedge my bets each year. This is the time of year to make sure everything is cleared, tidied, weeded, mulched and ready to go because once the growing season starts it gets very busy! More dahlias arrived today, these are a better colour than the others (growers choice) orange and white 🤪 They will probably turn out to be ones I absolutely love but I need a broader colour palette.

It has rained on and off for a large part of the day but only gentle rain in short bursts so not too bad and not cold either so I have worked through it.

It’s just gone 2pm and I am having a quick sit down as Sam will be picking me up in around 45 mins to look after the children while they go to the theatre tonight. At the minute the bus fairs are £2 single to help with living expenses and so they are taking the bus which turns a half hour journey into around 2hrs 😂 Still every little helps as they say 😁 I will be having dinner over at Sam’s so I have got John something from the freezer for him to reheat.

Tuesday: Another grey start to the day with the threat of rain, I guess at least you can call the weather settled 😂

It started of raining but soon cleared up although there were a couple of showers now and then. Shelley came over and we got a relatively big job done in the fruit cage. I have lost most of the summer raspberries (but have some on order) so I needed to empty out all the large pots clean up the compost and refill them ready for the new bare root plants. One of the problems I have in that area is bindweed and it had wrapped itself around the bottom of the tubs so that all needed carefully removing and taking for burning. I think there are around 12 tubs in total, I also disposed of the dead fig and the cherry bush. We had to dash into the big tunnel during one of the showers but we got the job done and finished which is fab. Later on in the day I tested all the soaker hoses I have set up and I have partially set one up in the fruit cage though it needs sorting out and pegging down properly. I also ordered 100m more soaker hose and connectors for the front beds as this (I am hoping) is going to be a big time saving addition to the large areas of garden that take hours to water with a hand held hose. One of the problems is that the beds do not run in straight lines, if they did it would be much simpler 😂

Wednesday: We had a bit of sunshine today 😁 though it was coupled with a ‘stiff breeze’ and when the sun went behind the clouds the breeze was quite cold. Shelley came over again today for a couple of hours to help in the garden, it makes such a difference when you have someone to work with, chivvys you along a bit 😝 We worked on the runner bean area this time and now it is all cleared and ready for planting but that will not be until May. It is also an area heavily infested with bindweed so again everything went to the burning pile and weed membrane re secured. Charlie also walked over with Oscar for a visit and I introduced him to the horses, he took that introduction like he takes everything, unperturbed 😂

I really need to get on with a bit (lot) of seed sowing now, this year I am using coir mixed with vermiculite as a substrate. I have found that the compost quality has deteriorated quite a bit over the last few years and am only using that for potting on. The coir is lighter and the added vermiculite gives more aeration for the roots. Seeds do not need any nutrients until they have produced the first true leaves, they have all they need packed into that little seed case to reach the surface and sprout cotyledon (embryonic leaves) the next two leaves produced are then the true leaves of the plant. Likewise a bulb does not need any nutrients, everything it needs to get to a certain point and only then will need feeding. Coir is a low nutrient substance and so it’s ideal for seed sowing.

Rain in the evening on and off.

Thursday: A tremendous amount of rain in the evening and through the night but a dry start to the day although very windy! I started off early by cutting some pussy willow for this weeks flowers, unfortunately I managed to snip the top of my ring finger while I was at it. Luckily not bad enough to have to get it seen to, our extensive first aid kit had all I needed 😝 After repairing myself I went into the greenhouse to sow broad beans and a few more sweet peas. I had deliveries arriving this morning so was waiting for those when BT turned up to do an annual check on our telegraph pole. They dig round the bottom of it, drill a tiny hole into it, tap it all the way up to the top to check for any rot. It has a good bill of health apart from some minor woodpecker damage 😂 Just as he left the first delivery arrived and I had just dealt with that when the second one arrived. The second one was a bit of a mission, I had bought some old wooden marquee doors from and local company for the workshop. They are the ideal size and perfect for what I want, what I didn’t realise is that I had purchased two sets 🤣 value for money or what but now I have a spare set of marquee doors if anyone wants any. They would make an ideal front to a garden room 😀

A sit down at lunchtime was in order after a frantic hour or so, I have some bouquets to make up this week and also a spring wreath so I will sit and think about those for a while.

I went back outside and cut some foliage and some daffodils, I have flower orders before they even go out tomorrow for Friday Flowers so not sure what if anything will be left to go out 🙄 I need to pop some flowers down to the pub and be back in time for looking after the twinnies. They are growing up fast and are at that fabulous age when conversations are hilarious and entertaining.

In the evening I made up two big bouquets and a couple of Market bunches.

It rained heavily most of the evening and into the night.

Friday: A bright and dry start but I won’t hold my breath as the rain does not look far away. This morning the first job was to make a spring wreath for collection later today and wrap the bouquets for collection as well. I put out the two bunches I had but they were sold by 9.30! The flower side of things has really taken off and at times it can be manic but it’s also fabulous to have that kind of reaction and support from customers. It is only 10.30 but I need a sit down and a coffee, collect my thoughts about the next couple of weeks ahead regarding flowers.

Spring wreath, Friesland Farm Flowers, Shilton, Oxfordshire, Xut flowers, British grown flowers

I did a bit in the greenhouse as the weather is changeable 🙄 one minute sunshine, next it’s windy and raining. I pricked out some scabious and purple tansy seedlings, potted on some gypsophila, cornflower and lavender and sowed some craspedia and snow princess marigolds. Most of the orders have been collected this morning, just one left for this evening, and have plenty to do as Mia, Josh and Flo are coming to stay tonight. I need to fling the hoover round, give the spare room a once over and get some shopping at some point but for now I am having a sit down. I seem to be struggling with fatigue again at the minute, there is always something 🙄 I am ok for the morning then take a bit of a dive, rest and then can get back at it in the afternoon.

I managed to get shopping done just after lunch, John came home and we went to get some goodies for the kids later. I was hoping to cook sausages outside but I am not sure that is going to be possible, I think Mother Nature it is convinced it’s already April with the amount of showers we are having at the minute.

Some of the raspberry canes arrived, I have put them in water and will plant up over the weekend. The soaker hose arrived, I said to the postman, I got this in case we get a drought this year, with the weather as it is at the minute the irony was not lost on either of us 😂

The children arrived and the weather didn’t improve so we had to cook indoors which is a shame but maybe another day. I think they enjoyed themselves, eating, bathing, watching a movie and finally sleeping 😝

Saturday: Josh and Mia were up first shortly followed by myself, then John and finally Flo around an hour later. On the breakfast menu was cereal, fresh fruit, pancakes (with every topping) apple juice and chocolate milk 🥰 Once the parents had collected them I went outside to get a bit done, the three beds in the front now all have soaker hose in place. We bought a y shape hose connector and the hose goes round in a loop, I tested it and it’s going to work really well it will be Sod’s Law that we don’t have any dry periods all year now! I also sowed some seeds in the greenhouse, cosmos, celosia for flowers but also runner beans and peas. I planted up most of the sprouted onion sets, around 36 I think which def won’t last us all year so I may plant up a lot more yet I just need to find somewhere for them to go.

Sunday: More rain 🙄 I know we need it to fill the reservoirs after later summer but seriously 😒 what’s more it’s colder with it today which makes it even more unpleasant. My first job in the greenhouse was to start potting up the dahlia tubers to wake them up. The ones in the front beds do not get lifted and I won’t know until they start to sprout or not if they made it through the winter. The others in the back beds did not get lifted in time and so most of those are lost, it has been a bad winter even for stored dahlias with many people losing tubers. The ones I potted up are new tubers in various colours, pink, red, orange and some white, I think there are 20 in total fingers crossed they are all viable. once that was done and as it’s not sunny I decided to tackle the soaker hose in the big tunnel, one side works fine the other side just keeps leaking at the connection point. I have tried various different connectors and this is the third time I have tried to sort it getting soaked each time I try. The rain and cold outside and getting wet inside just about naffed me off to the limit and so I have given up for now, John tried as well but although he achieved less leakage than me it still leaks. Hosepipe connecters and fittings are the pits they never seem to work well for long even when you replace the washers or if you buy the more expensive ones, I imagine the shares are pretty good for investors as the turnover must be huge keep replacing them all the time 😂 It’s Sod’s Law that every other line I have put in and tested works fine but not the one I want to use right now! I will try again tomorrow and see if I can get it working any better 🤷‍♀️

I spent almost 2 hrs sorting out my plant labels and either putting them into alphabetical order or group order. The flowers shrubs etc are all in alphabetical and the fruit/veg/herbs are all in groups. They are then stored in bags inside a plastic tub. Some of the labels I have had for a good number of years (up to 10) some have become too brittle and I have put those in the bin. I have tried wooden ones but the ink runs in the rain or the pencil disappears and you can’t read them so I use plastic. At the end of the year they are all gathered up if they are no longer being used and thrown into a small plant trough, I then have the task of sorting them all out at this time of year. Some of them can be cleaned off so that I have new blanks but most are written with a sharpie and that does not come off lol. They are used year after year for many years so that is the trade off, when I find something better I will definitely make the change ( I did then order wooden ones as I couldn’t bring myself to order plastic 😝)

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Rain, lots of learning & and holibob booked.

Tuesday 10th January 2023: I am feeling a lot better now but the weather leaves a lot to be desired doesn’t it? I am of an age now though when I am totally at peace with ‘what doesn’t get done today will eventually get done at some point’ so don’t stress over it life is too short for that. There is plenty that I could be doing outside but it’s too wet and so it can wait until it is pleasant enough to go out and do it which will be far more enjoyable. I can find lots to do inside and I can find lots to research, read up on or plan which is exactly what I have been doing. I have done some costings for the workshops and roughly planned the times of the year when I will do them, I have made a note of significant flower dates through the year so I know when they are and I have brushed up on some skills so you see I have not been idle at all. Yesterday morning I spent the time sorting out all of the dried flowers I had hung at the end of the season, they are now all nicely stored and ready to do something with when the time comes and the dried flower area is clear ready for hanging the next lot though that won’t be for a while yet. I invested a tiny amount of my profit in a lighting ring to take better photos, I did one practice photo this morning and it is going to make such a difference. All I did was take a snap of clutter on the side but the with and without shots are so different that I can see it was a worthwhile purchase. I also bought a ground auger which attaches to a drill to plant bulbs, again a game changer as you can plant soo many more in less time plus the auger is doing all the hard work for you (especially on this ground which is very difficult to dig in places) I have a lot of bulbs left over and want to put them all down the driveway but having planted some before I know that it is hard work, hopefully this will be a much easier way 🤷‍♀️ I do keep looking at the garden thinking I need to do some cutting back and some weeding but I am also aware that plenty of insects will be hibernating or overwintering in all that dead stuff so I don’t want to disturb them too early, I need to get the balance right. The insect population is in massive decline 😞 we need to be doing all we can to increase diversity in our garden areas. We all know about what plants butterfly’s and bees like but there are thousands more insects that need our support, ground dwellers need healthy soil and plenty of cover or decaying debris, pollinators need a wide range of different types of flowers and foliage. I believe it is up to us to provide a rich diverse garden area to increase the different species of insects and their volume, this is regeneration.

Friday 13th: The weather is shocking lol, rain and lots of it, plenty of water sitting in our paddocks and the Ford in the village is about to spill over I think 🙄 especially if we get as much as is forecast tomorrow. What have I been up to over the past couple of days, well I would like to say I had been outside working on the garden but I haven’t. I figure that it will all wait until the weather is a little more settled and nicer, I have become a fair weather gardener over the last few years. I no longer want to get soaked or end up with chilblains on my feet or have hands that are so numb they take an age to get the feeling back, nope I am definitely moving into my wiser years 😂 Instead I have been finding plenty of jobs indoors including clearing through my entire wardrobe and finally getting rid of stuff I either don’t like or doesn’t fit (and I hang on to it in case one day it miraculously does 🤪) all gone and it feels great. I will be continuing to move through the house with the same determination to declutter everywhere.

I was unaware it was Friday 13th until I typed the date ☝️ up there but it seems fitting somehow that today was the day I chose to begin an online course in funeral flowers 🤷‍♀️ I have no idea what really prompted me to do it but I figured it was another string to my bow. The course is all about sustainable, compostable methods and is geared towards, but not exclusively for, natural or green burials, it seemed fitting somehow and I figured any skills and tips were transferable to other areas so it was a no brainer really 😁

Saturday: More rain, high winds urrrggh I am so done with winter already 🤪 It does offer me the opportunity to stay in the warm and do something useful though. So plenty of learning on the online course which I have to say is very comprehensive and informative I am so glad I decided to do it and as I suspected there are skill transfer opportunities all the way through so great value for money in my opinion. I have also spent some time researching various plants and flowers as well as looking through lots of social media (flower related naturally) watching you tube sessions and listening to podcasts of various types. Yes that is what winters are for I think but still I eagerly await the warmer days. I have also ordered some British grown flowers so that I can have a play and a practise doing a few things 🥰 that will feed my flower habit for a bit. To be honest I have to do some homework/task for the online course using what is available at this time of year, I do have some bits in the garden but I don’t have any narcissi out yet and I want to have a go at using those as well so I ordered some in. I was really saddened to see that one of the cottages in the village was having some landscaping done and had all the mature shrubs ripped out 😢 omg I used to walk past and think ‘look at those lovely specimens, I would love to be able to cut some of those’ I wish I had been there when they started ripping them out, I would have told them I will come and get them, a piece with a root would have been enough. I don’t know what they are replacing the lovely old walls and shrubs with but I can hazard a guess that it will be pretty sterile now 😔 There should be laws against it lol or at least proper consultation with someone who has half an idea about nature 😭

Sunday: Not a bad day weather wise, no rain at least 🤪 I did a quick online workshop for making reels 🙄 this has become more important as time has gone on as the algorithms favour these kind of posts over stills. To be honest I just like to keep up (as best as possible) with technology and it’s avenues, it is surprising how quickly you get left behind otherwise. I put some beef in the slow cooker and we went to my sisters for a mid morning coffee where we got waylaid and booked a holiday while we were there 😁 John is very happy now we have one on the calendar and we will be booking another for later in the year. It is a big year for us, John will be 60 😳 in June and we will have been married for 40 years (how the heck did that happen 🤷‍♀️) I have secured myself some rubies to mark the occasion 😉 and I feel we deserve a few nice holidays and day trips this year of all years 🥰 Shelley, Martin and the children walked over to visit in the afternoon (I did invite them for dinner but they were already going to Martins Mums) and once they had gone we had a lovely roast dinner with a crumble for after. The temperatures are set to plummet tonight, a lot lower than they have been anyway but with that should come sunshine tomorrow ☀️ so I will look forward to that.

No photos this week as I haven’t taken any but I will try and remedy that, in the meantime:

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2023 🥳 Happy New Year

Friday 6th January 2023: We are already the first week into the new year, a time for new beginnings, hopes, dreams and plans. I will briefly recap what happened since I last blogged.

The day after returning from Lapland I came down with a bug, nothing surprising there really but it went on for days and days, nausea, cold, shivering, extreme tiredness, not really what you want in the run up to Christmas as I could barely function. Couple that with the minus temperatures all week long and the difficulties of getting water to the animals every day and life was a tad difficult for a while. I had Christmas table decorations to get made for orders but I could hardly function normally let alone creatively. I had also agreed to make something for the church pulpit from dried flowers.

Thursday 15th December: The temp on the van was registering -10 at 7.30am this morning so what it went down to overnight is anyones guess. This year has definitely been extremes in temperature, I think that might be the coldest we have had here. Hopefully today it is going to get above 0 which will be a massive help because trying to get water to all the animals is bloody difficult I can tell you.

At one point I did think I would have to cancel the Christmas orders or at least put them off but by the designated date I was able to get them all made and off to customers so that was good. It made me realise that I probably would strike weddings off my possibility list because if the Lupus flared I would not be able to fulfil the order and I wouldn’t want that.

I just about felt well enough by the 20th to go out and get the last of the Christmas shopping bits and I never normally leave it that late. By the 23rd I was feeling normal and looking forward the the festivities, we had Christmas carols that evening round the pond which has a Christmas tree in the middle which was a lovely start to Christmas. A lovely relaxed Christmas Eve, Charlie, Macca and Oscar for Christmas Day and then everyone for Boxing Day breakfast and round to Shelley’s for supper in the evening. I was feeling very content, happy and lucky, we went round to my sisters the day after Boxing Day and by now I had developed a tiny irritating cough but nothing too much. Well the cough got worse, much worse, to the point where I was having to hold my side during coughing fits as I was afraid it would herniate, I couldn’t sit down or lie down without spasmodic coughing fits that became continuous. Along with this came sinusitis, a fuzzy head, loss of hearing and I went though a whole pack of toilet rolls just getting rid of the mucus. I felt pretty sorry for myself and was mostly confined to the sofa for what seemed like an eternity. It’s a good job we didn’t have NYE plans and we were supposed to go to Charlie for New Year’s Day dinner but she was ill and so we didn’t go until the following day. All in all Christmas has been about illness and not just for me as I know lots of people who have had similar experiences and are struggling to shrug the bugs off.

I am still not well, better but not well and as luck would have it I had a telephone appointment with the rheumatology dept on the 4th. That was actually pretty constructive and thorough, the upshot is that because I am on the immune suppressants my body can’t fight off the bugs successfully. I have also had an ongoing UTI which at this point I have had three lots of antibiotics for but I can’t shift it. No wonder I feel so poorly, there will be a meeting to discuss how to treat me, it will be a tightrope walk 🙄 Basically in order for my body to fight these infections I will probably need to come off the immune suppressants in order for the antibiotics to work but that in turn could then trigger a Lupus flare, I am stuck between the devil and the deep blue sea. Obviously I need my body to repair and I don’t think it is going to do that while I am on the medication, the gamble will be how long to I stop it for before it becomes too long 🤷‍♀️

What else happened over Christmas, well we had a weird thing happen when I couldn’t find Diesel’s bowl one morning. He gets fed by the back door and has a stainless steel bowl, this particular morning it was gone and despite searching for it I could not find it. So I found another bowl and used that for his morning and the night feed, the next morning that bowl was gone as well 🤪 I imagine it was a fox that carried them off but where too that is the question. We did find one right at he back in one of the paddocks but never found the other yet. One of those nights I woke up at 1.30 with a coughing fit and could hear something up on the roof, I went into the boot room and the dogs and cats were fast asleep so it wasn’t any of them, also not human otherwise the dogs would have been barking. It was definitely heavier than squirrels or birds so again I am thinking the fox was up there maybe eating the last of the apples that were on the roof still. I told John in the morning and he said ‘didn’t you go out and have a look’ no I bloody didn’t lol, I have watched too many horror films to be that stupid 😂

John has been busy, while I was incapacitated, taking down the partitions in the stable area in order to rebuild it into a work shop for the flowers. He also had to do everything else bless him as I literally could not do anything. Normally I would have spent the time planning the year ahead and working out what I want to get done, what needs planting/sowing and this year what workshops I want to offer but I have not been able to do any of that at all. I have bulbs that arrived that are just sat outside, I have not checked on any of the seeds or bulbs I had already sown for at least a month now but none of that can be helped and I am sure I will catch up at some point. The weather apart from that very cold snap has been mild, mild means plenty of rain, plenty of rain means the front paddock has a lake in it, standard stuff for winter.

That in a nutshell is how the last month has gone for me, illness, Christmas, more illness and not a lot else getting done at all. But as always I am not one to be defeated and so I will keep doing what I can in bite size pieces until I get to where I need to be 😁 I want to be offering various flower workshops this year coming, I want to increase the amount of flowers I sell and I want to make sure I have flowers available on a regular basis so that customers know when they can come and get them. I am looking forward to this next year and seeing what it brings plus I will be getting back on track with the home grown veg which went a little by the by last year, those are my plans at least, we will see how they go.

Today I am going to be clearing and tidying the office/craft room which has become clogged with all manner of things. Dried flowers, craft stuff, Christmas stuff, it all needs sorting and putting away so that I can see what is what in there again. I was going to go out with the girls today but I have decided that I need to limit the possibility of picking up any more bugs. Firstly I don’t think my body can handle much more and secondly I would worry about my chances if I had to end up in hospital with the state of things at the minute 😔 I don’t think the outlook would be good to be honest. The state of the NHS has been a hotly talked about topic as you can imagine, my take on it is that undoubtedly there has been a lack of funding but I also think there is far more to it than that. Purely from a laypersons point of view the system is broken in so many areas it would be difficult to know where to start. It needs looking at from a fresh point of view instead of trying to patch up the holes, easier said than done but maybe that is what happens with anything, a system reaches capacity, collapses and a new system is born.

We have had the first goose egg of the year, that is ridiculously early but as it is so mild not unexpected to be honest.

We are well into the New Year and so as I publish this today I have some exciting plans to look forward to and implement, I already have enquiries coming in which is both fabulous and daunting at the same time 😂 but ‘go big or go home’ Charlie has told me so here I am jumping in both feet first 🤪

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Rain, wreath evenings & wet feet.

Monday 21st November 2023: What a soggy miserable day it was today, rain from dawn to dusk and beyond. I was not about to go outside and do anything in that sort of weather so I busied myself indoors for the morning, finding any little job that needed doing. Charlotte came over at lunchtime, we had some soup and then I went with her while she did her weekly shop, me pushing Oscar and Charlie pushing the trolley. I did get a diary and a calendar for next year while I was there, it has got to that time of year when dates need writing down.

Tuesday: A better day today, dry, sunny but cold. I spent most of the day cutting various foliage including rose hips which all had to be de thorned 😂 I am hoping that there will be enough diversity to appeal to everyone and that individual personality will shine through in each wreath made 🥰

Wednesday: Another filthy day 😂 honestly torrential downpours, hail, wind, yuk. Consequently I did not do much outside 🤪 sod that for a game of soldiers, I spent my time indoors cleaning and finding indoor jobs to get on with. I am aware that the year is passing buy so quickly and I have got plenty to do outdoors but I also reason with myself that a lot of it can wait until spring. There is nothing wrong with leaving all the dead stuff standing in situ in fact it is more beneficial to the wildlife that way. There will be plenty of insects overwintering in dead foliage and they are best left undisturbed. It is also better for the soil structure if it has partial covering, cleared ground gets pounded, compacts and then you get run off and leaching of nutrients all the more reason to wait. Besides I have plenty of other jobs to get sorted now we are fast approaching December with all the usual festive food to think about plus gift shopping.

Thursday: First thing this morning I spent an hour talking to myself 🤪 there was a good reason and I am not going mad. It was time to get sorted and ready to teach the wreath workshops tomorrow so I spent an hour talking to myself as a result 😂 I missed up and mad up one wreath just to practise what I was going to say, then I spent the next hour cleaning up the pool room and sorting out as John would be using the table tonight. I had the twins after school and then dashed off for some Bowen therapy early evening. It was a good session with plenty worked on and it tired me out so I spent the evening on the sofa relaxing.

One thing I have been doing is looking up as much as I can about operation Grapple. These were nuclear tests done out in Christmas Islands during the latter half of the 1950’s, the reason I am interested is because my Dad was there serving in the Royal Navy at the time. The powers that be have now decided to recognise these veterans with a medal (Dads will be posthumous) I have applied for his service records and hopefully they will be found, they will be an interesting read. It’s is pretty shocking stuff to be honest, Dad went into national service and would have been 17/18 going on an adventure of a lifetime. It was an adventure and he loved it but I can’t help thinking that they were inadequately dressed and exposed to massive amounts of radiation 😔 Dad was one of the lucky ones and never had any illness resulting from his time there but thousands of servicemen did and many of their offspring too. It is also sad that it has taken this long to recognise their service at that time and that many of them are no longer here to personally receive that recognition. Does not matter if you agree with Nuclear testing or not those service personal had no choice but to do as they were ordered. They were allowed to take personal photos and I have seen the ones Dad took though he always told us that because he had signed the official secrets act they were to remain unseen by others. There are some there where the only clothes they have on are shirts and t shirts 😳 and the protective clothing would be laughed out of the storeroom these days. It is what it is and they did what they did and I am glad they are finally recognising it but did it have to take so long?

Friday: The sun is shining thank goodness, we have had some horrendous downpours, that’s all we get these days, torrential or nothing 🤪 I have been busy this morning preparing everything for the first wreath workshop tonight 🥰 I am looking forward to it, the mince pies are cooked, the mulled wine is ready to go, the foliage is all waiting to be used, the Christmas song playlist is good to go, bring on the fun and creativity.

One thing I have been mulling over was a post on social media whereby someone was looking for a ‘ reasonably priced’ wreath workshop. These things always start me thinking about how detached people are from the real cost of things, we are so used to cheap goods that we fail to see the value in anything worthy. Behind each workshop there is a lot of work that goes on, a lot of organising and there are costs. Most people doing workshops have already invested in learning how to make a wreath many years before then there are costs like insurance, heating, lighting, renting a space if you don’t have one. The cost of sundry materials such as wire, frames, fir cones, ribbon, feathers, dried oranges, moss and foliage or the time it takes to gather moss and foliage and in my case to cut and weave the willow frames. Then there is the setting up, the teaching and the clearing away. I am not sure that people fully understand what is involved but it’s not just a bit of greenery on a frame 😬 And besides once you have done a workshop you have the skill for life 🥰

In the evening I had the first of three wreath evening workshops and I can honestly say I really enjoyed it, I was a bit nervous at first but once into my stride I loved it. It was great to see people having never done one before produce something very worthy of hanging on the door during advent 😁

Saturday: I had round two of workshops in the evening but I mostly spent the day making wreaths and tidying up, collecting more greenery etc, it’s surprising how much it uses 😂 Saturday nights participants also went away with fabulous wreaths.

Sunday: Slightly tired today but once we had done all the morning jobs it was time to go and get my eyes tested. New glasses for me as my eyesight has deteriorated a little in two years which I was aware of. Then we called into my brothers for coffee, they happened to have breakfast on the go so we had a bacon roll as well😁 I had called in to cut some foliage from their garden and once we had cut that it was back home. My feet were soaking wet, I should have taken my wellies but didn’t think about it so although there were plenty of Christmas fayres on today I couldn’t go anywhere else really as I wanted to get back and get dry feet again. I had a restful afternoon as I was feeling pretty tired, I need to conserve energy for the rest of the week.

John has been busy over the weekend cleaning out the birds in various stages, we are only a couple of weeks in and already it feels like it has been going on for ages, poor birds 😔

That’s it this week, have a good one 😁