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Sunshine, flowers & a stolen flower shed!

Monday 24th June 2024: It seems like the months are whizzing past lol. Sorry about the lack of blogging I have either been too busy or too tired to keep up with it.

Summer has finally arrived after all the rubbish weather and this week we have wall to wall sunshine which means of course that I cannot get outside for the best part of the day! There never seems to be a good balance but I am getting up very early and getting work done, by 9am I have usually done 4 hours already. It is a beautiful part of the day, cool and quiet, very good for mindfulness.

The flower sales are going well and the flowers are now a little more abundant than they were in the dull, wet spring 🙄 But the slugs, oh my days, they have been rampant and munching on everything and anything 😂 It is quite disheartening at times but try as I might I lose something to those slimy jaws every day.

This weekend coming I have the busiest weekend I have ever had flower wise, I totalled up the stems I will need and it is around 650 which for me is a lot. I have two private workshops, flowers for a private event and orders so I will be busy and I need to get my head in order so that I have everything I need for when I need it and do not miss anything out.

I have more or less finished planting everything out now, the only things left are back up plants for any failures. One big fail I had were the snapdragons, on one side of the tunnel they got rust and all had to come up, strangely though the ones on the other side are fine 🤷‍♀️ I will definitely look for rust resistant seed next time.

I have spent a lovely hour or so every evening picking raspberries, there are a lot on there this year. There are two reasons for that, the first and the most stupid error I made was thinking that they were autumn raspberries and so cut them down each year as you should for that variety. I didn’t have time last year and so they got left and voila an abundance of raspberries, they were summer fruiting ones all along 🤪 second reason is that we put new netting on the cage so no holes means no birds getting in and stealing them. It is raspberry everything at the minute, crumbles, sponge puddings, yoghurt topping and then some for freezing too. The redcurrants are abundant again and I always use them mixed in with other fruit for puddings, the blackcurrants are just ripening and the gooseberries too. We will have a good amount of fruit this year as the top fruits are also looking good including the apricot tree 🥰 I just need to get back to growing a good amount of veg, we have tomatoes, cucumber and courgettes growing plus a few runner bean plants but that is it this year which is not ideal. There are however some good little farm shops around selling veg and we have a lamb coming for the freezer from a small local farm 😊

I have emptied and defrosted one of the freezers and then started filling it back up so that I can defrost the other freezer. I am trying to either use up what I have or at least know what is in there so that I can plan meals around the contents.

I still prepare for emergencies and as the government suggested a couple of months back (although not many people seem to have heard about it) that everyone should have three days of food, water and supplies for emergencies I wonder what they know that we don’t? Sadly with the state of the world today we have never been closer to disaster in my lifetime than we are now, wars, invasions, climate catastrophes, being prepared is just common sense really, we saw what happened in the pandemic so it pays to be mindful that anything is possible! Personally I like more than a weeks supply and mostly dried or tinned because if the electric goes down then the freezers are fine for a few days but after that everything spoils. Obviously I would use up the perishables first but if the emergency went on longer then we are on to dried and tinned goods lol. If you are interested in the concept then there are some very good you tubers (UK based) doing some excellent round ups of what you would need. The government list is a little basic and not very inspiring or nutritious, you can definitely do better than that with a bit of imagination. Only store what you would use and the key is to use what you store so that you keep it rotating, especially anything with a shorter shelf life.

You can check out the government website to see what they suggest you should have. https://prepare.campaign.gov.uk/get-prepared-for-emergencies/

Tuesday: Oscar day: It will be a long day today as the sun is out and it’s hot meaning I can’t really go outside so everything will be indoor activities. He doesn’t understand why we can’t go out and play in the garden which makes me sad and frustrated at the same time. Actually I do get a little emotional at this time of year when everyone wants to be out doing stuff in the sun and I can’t join in. My nephew is getting married this week, we had an invitation and of course I would love to be there but it is in Greece 😬 I know I would just about die in that kind of heat so won’t be going which makes me sad. It is not just being outside because you could probably organise some shade but just travelling to and from places is difficult, no transport is ever set up with shady areas 😂 even in a car is horrible unless the windows in the back are blacked out and there is air con, two of the things that were a must have when we got our new car.

I tend to just not go to events if I think they are likely to be out in the open, which is most of them, including pub gardens, you can’t really carry an umbrella big enough to stop UVs bouncing around.

We booked a holiday in the med last year in October thinking that would be ok, nope they had a heat wave and I am still suffering the consequences of getting stuck waiting for the tourist bus in Barcelona with not a single piece of shade in sight.

We need more shady areas, I think I need to start a campaign lol. Joking aside though, there are so many problems that do not have a simple solution when it comes to Lupus and the sun.

Wednesday: Up early to get the cutting for the weekend started, 3 hrs of cutting, then watering the tunnels. I do those in the morning to try and limit slug activity but there is still evidence of them having had a party every night. I need to get all the outside jobs done and dusted before it gets too hot for me, that includes any animal feeding, the eggs into the shed, the rubbish out to the bins, the horses water etc etc. Today that took me up to around 11am, then I had a couple of deliveries, one of them was some very tall stem flowers from another grower which then need to be stripped and conditioned. Lunch and a sit down for an hour or so before I get some inside jobs done and then have a sit down before getting dinner and starting the evening work. More watering outside, to be honest this is the first lot I have done outside and the heat has dried the ground a fair bit so everything needs a pick me up. Another delivery mid evening of some locally reared lamb for the freezer, sort that out and then round to Mums to cut some flowers from her garden that she said I could have, I took some lambs liver round for Ken as a barter swap 😊 Mum has the most amazing hydrangea growing in the front garden that has probably around 70/80 heads on it each year. It obviously loves the position it is planted in and you can bet if I wanted to grow one that well it just wouldn’t happen 🤪 Back home to get the flowers into the dark and some good depth of water so that they don’t flop. Outside to turn of the watering and by this time I am literally falling asleep on my feet so it’s a good job it’s nearly time for bed.

The temperature is supposed to drop around 5 degrees tomorrow which will be a welcome relief from the hot and humid few days we have had, as always the weather has jumped from cold and wet straight into blazing hot 🥵

Wednesday/Thursday: I mostly spent my days gardening or cutting flowers ready for the weekend. I am cutting everyday at the moment so I get up pretty early to get started. On Thursday evening I sorted out all the flowers and foliage I had cut into all the different things I needed them for. Bouquet orders, bunch orders, arrangement order which consisted of five large arrangements of flowers, eleven lots of flowers for the workshops also fro me to demo and then flowers for Friday flowers.

Friday: Up early again to get some watering done and wrap the flowers ready to go out on the roadside stand.

Feeling happy that everything was in hand I took the flowers out to the stand only to find it had been stolen! It is not a small stand, it’s 5ft tall and heavy, they took the one bucket that was still in there and discarded the clip board with the QR code on. I actually couldn’t believe someone had nicked it, wtaf.

I was pretty upset because they had not only taken something that was essential to roadside sales but also stolen a fair bit of my enthusiasm for the day. I am just trying to make an honest (and modest) living and some low life thinks it’s perfectly ok to take it away for themselves. I can only think that as it was a converted chicken house, that’s what they wanted it for but do me a favour and buy your own you tight, lazy, good for nothing gits. People like that have no idea of the impact stealing stuff has on the owner, they probably don’t care either and I just hope that Karma really has it in for them one way or another 😡

For an hour or so it really threw me and I couldn’t focus on the work I really needed to get done for the day but I had to get the jobs done because I had customers relying on me. Eventually after so coffee and toast I put that behind me and cracked on with arranging flowers and getting the flower room ready for the weekend workshops. By 9pm I physically could not do any more, my back ached, my feet ached and I figured it was best to stop, get a good nights sleep and start again in the morning.

If you ever wonder why flowers cost what they do then here is a run down to your order.

  • Sow the seeds or plant the bulbs and plants (that you ordered months ago in preparation)
  • Nurture those seeds/bulbs with water, feed and protection from the weather
  • Plant the plants when big enough and continue nurturing
  • Put staking in place so they grow nice and straight for cutting, continue to nurture, weed and watch the pests eat your precious plants 🤪
  • Weeks but mostly months later cut the stems at the exact right time of opening.
  • Strip the stems, condition the flowers so that they are at their best
  • Arrange the flowers into whatever has been ordered, wrap and wait for collection or deliver.
  • Sweep, wipe and clean the workspace, deposit the debris on the compost heap.
  • Wash out the buckets thoroughly ready for the next cutting.

And of course that is only part of the story because in there is a wealth of knowledge that took plenty of studying, lots of planning and lots of heavy, continuous work just to get to the very first point. This is true no matter the size of the patch you are growing in, it is never just cutting some flowers and presenting them, that’s just how easy we make it look 😂

Saturday: Up early to get the room tidied from arranging all the flowers the night before, get the room straight so that people arriving for the workshop have no idea what a muddle it was in just an hour before they arrived. John went off to deliver a regular flower order, I don’t have time to do it today but he is used to delivering for me 😊 An emergency dash to another grower because the delphiniums I had were shedding petals everywhere (that’s a story for another day and I can chalk that up to experience 🙄) Teach the workshop, enjoy chatting all things flowers with some lovely ladies, clear everything up have a quick lunch break then organise exactly how I am going to transport five vases of tall flowers to a customer on a very hot afternoon 🤪 deliver the order successfully and then off round to Shelley and Martins for a BBQ.

A workshop with friends is a fabulous way to celebrate 🥰

Sunday: Up early again to water and organise everything for todays workshop, more chatting with more lovely ladies about flowers 😊 Tidy up and clear away, have some lunch and then deliver a big celebration bouquet in the afternoon. I made this up at some point during Friday or Saturday but I can’t remember when!

At this point I should go in and tidy up the workshop but I have done enough this weekend and it can wait until tomorrow.

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Chelsea Flower show, eye hospital & flower workshop.

Monday 22nd May 2023: I am hoping I can type more this week, the microphone way has its limits 😜 The day started off dull but the sun soon came out and there is a considerable amount of heat in it when it does. I had to water some of the pots this morning as they are flagging already and considering the amount of rain we had previously that has caught me by surprise. The farrier came mid morning but as I couldn’t get the horses in Sam had to come here before she went shopping, go and get her shopping while he was doing his hoof work and then come back after she finished shopping to put them back out into the field. Biscuit is doing ok, she is still in the smallest paddock and no longer confined to a tiny part of it which I feel is better as she can at least get some exercise, she never runs but she has the option now😂

Charlie and Oscar came over for an hour or so, once they had gone home I decided I needed a nap. I can tolerate the constant stinging sensation when I am busy during the day but the nighttime is horrible and I didn’t get much sleep last night so was pretty tired. Late afternoon I did go outside and do a bit of work, the weeds are romping away and most of them I leave for the wildlife. Things like dead nettle and chickweed are easy to pull and don’t really swamp plants but other weeds such as bindweed, goose grass, dock and dandelion either strangle or sprawl out taking valuable light from the plants so they need to come out. Because I am limited in what I can do at the minute I have ordered some more weed membrane, not the best option being plastic but much better than weedkiller which is the other option. I did trial natural things like jute and cardboard, they work for a while but soon break down and I need a longer term solution this year. I also got some watering done especially things in pots and the tunnels, they dry out very quickly when the sun is full on. I have seen that mulching is the best way to keep plants going, two of the beds in the front were mulched and the third I didn’t get round to doing, I can see the difference so must make it a priority come autumn. I did loose quite a few plants to the very low temperatures in Winter, I think we went down to around -12 at one point, I lost both pittosporum bushes, an olive tree, rosemary, plumbago and a few others that I have no idea what they are now they are just brown twigs. Quite disheartening but everything is a lesson to learn and I know that many other people lost a lot as well.

I spent the whole morning gardening which was nice, some weeding, some planting up and watering some things, the cloudy weather made that possible if the sun came out then I would not have got much done at all.

Tuesday: I spent the whole morning gardening, sowing some annual seeds and the seedlings that are big enough to now go out. My sister came over at lunchtime with her granddaughter and had a cup of tea while Ivy played in the pirate ship and looked at all the animals. By then the sun was out and so I went inside to get stuff done. At 3pm we lost power 🙄 calls to the electric board suggested that it would not be back on until 10pm. John arrived home wanting a cuppa, no chance lol so we went shopping and called into my sister on the way home for a cup of tea. She did offer us dinner but I said it’s ok we will light the fire pit and cook on there, John was not keen so we had a cheese sandwich 😂 The electric actually came on at around 8pm so it wasn’t too bad and the first thing we did was put the kettle on 😜

Wednesday: I didn’t sleep very well last night even with painkillers 🙄 so was a bit tired today. But I had work to do first thing and so I spent a lovely hour or so cutting flowers for orders, I have had a flurry of orders this week which is fab. I had some deliveries to wait for today, stools for the workshop plus a wood delivery which did not arrive 🙄 John came home early as he had an appointment with an osteopath for his neck which has been ongoing for months now. Apparently it’s the worst he has ever seen and it took three attempts to do whatever it was he was trying to do. John has exercises to do 🙄 hopefully he will do them instead of complaining about how much it hurts all the time, you can take a horse to water but you can’t make it drink can you 😜 In the evening I made up the flower orders for tomorrow and Friday as I have an early start in the morning and a long but lovely day at Chelsea flower show 🥰

Thursday: Chelsea Flower Show day 😁 an early start but it made no difference as the traffic was horrendous and it still took us three hours to get there (could have driven to Devon in that time 😂) Luckily for me it was fairly overcast all day so I didn’t have to worry about hats and sun cream although I had packed it all plus wore my factor 50 top. The show itself was great, lots of natural planting and everywhere I looked the flowers were the ones I grow so my style is on point people 🙌 We saw a few gardeners world presenters including Monty so that’s a ✔️ but the people oh my goodness it was jam packed seriously rammed. We waited until around 4pm to go round again and be able to get to see the gardens, I think they should have special viewing for short people 😜 The atmosphere was lovely mind you and the food we ate was delicious plus great coffee (always a bonus) but trying to find even a square of grass to sit down was a mission. In conclusion I am delighted I went but would not go again and I am grateful that I live out in the countryside where we have great gardens and planting (natural and man made) everywhere you look 🥰 A dive into London life is not something I would like to do very often, manic and full on 😬

You couldn’t fail to notice these driftwood sculptures at Chelsea 🤩 and if you zoom in closer to the trunk you will see tiny carved fairies too.
Nearly every garden was planted similar to this, even the planters in the cafe, loved it because it is so much my kind of style, even weeds and grasses featured heavily, maybe the message is finally getting through 😁

Friday: After a full day away I feel like a whirlwind this morning not because I am full of energy but because I have lots to fit in. I have an appointment at the eye hospital again this morning for a check up and also another sample for research 🙄 I could have said I don’t want to do it again but as I said if people don’t volunteer then they will never learn anything will they. I won’t be offering my services for a third time though 😂 So this morning I was up with the alarm, breakfasted and then making up jam jars and market bunches for Friday flowers at the farm gate. It has been a busy flower week so far and it’s not finished yet as I have a flower workshop to teach on Sunday 🥰 A wood delivery arrived and that is then enough to finish the cladding on the front of the stable block which is looking great. I constantly think how ‘4th bridge’ this place is though, never ending work to do in order to fix things and all the while you are fixing one thing, something else is breaking down 😬 still it keeps us on our toes and active which is a good thing as you get older.

My arm and hand are very much improved though I still can’t hold a pen well enough to write neatly and I am still getting the stinging sensations which are intense at times but much less often. The blisters have mostly all dried up and on my arm the have all gone just the hand and fingers left now. It seems like it has taken forever and it has been around 20 days from when the shingles outbreak peaked so already it has been 27 days from onset to now and it’s still not gone entirely.

Outing of the day today was back to the eye hospital to have a needle stuck in my right eye 😜 This time is was a timed appointment and we were not there very long, the reason I was seen so quickly was because the whole thing was set up for the research doctors to be there especially for me 👍 I can’t believe how truly grateful all were and kept saying thank you, I did say I am happy to do it as long as you don’t want me to come back a third time 😂 I don’t think I could do it again, it doesn’t hurt but it the thinking about it beforehand and then the whole routine of drops for days afterwards is u settling.

While I was at the hospital I had a text from the farm next door to say that they had shit their hens away as the fox was about, there was nothing I could do except hope it didn’t go down our way. When I got home Sam was there with the kiddies and had let the dogs out so that was some comfort although John tells me we lost one hen at the back. The problem this time of year is that they are feeding young and so will risk a daytime visit 😏 I didn’t do anything else until the evening when I spent time moving some flower stuff over to the hut and getting the place sorted ready for working in. John continued to clad the outside and we are very nearly there now.

Watering plants late evening finished off the day.

Saturday: Was hoping for a good nights sleep last night but no, the pain (tingling now) intensifies at night 🙄 Anyhow I was still up when the alarm went off as I had lots to do this morning, after the usual jobs I spent an hour and a half cutting flowers and foliage for tomorrow. Typically the flowers I was hoping would be out have not yet arrived, cornflowers and campanula being two I can think of. Luckily I ah E plenty of other things growing and so I have cut delphinium, lupin, geums, astrantia, nepeta, tellima, hesperis, aquilegia, some shepherds purse and buttercups too. Tomorrow I will cut some grasses and some cow parsley for movement and air as most of the showstopper flowers in May are pointy and so some contrast is needed.

I sat down for a while after doing that as my hand was pinging like crazy 😜 It is down to the last bit now on the wrist and hand as the arm has cleared up and no sensations at all from there thank goodness. Constant pain, however small, is very wearing both mentally and physically I am just glad there will hopefully be and end to this soon although some people co to use to suffer for many months ☹️

All the while I am organising the flower workshop, flower orders for next week, what gardening needs doing plus the usual household jobs, I am also organising a bbq for next Saturday for John. It will be his 60th birthday the following week 😂 When I was 17 and we first met I could never have envisaged John being 60 and us having 3 beautiful girls and 6 gorgeous grandchildren plus the three brilliant husbands in their lives. We have been very fortunate and I count my blessings every day as does John and of course he hit the jackpot when he married me 😜 We will also be celebrating 40 years of marriage at the end of June, whaaaat where did those years go 🤷‍♀️

Sunday: First flower workshop day 🥰 Up early as I still had plenty to organise including more cutting of grasses and anything else I decided was useful. John was busy finishing off a few bits on the outside of the building and tidying the area so there were no trips hazards. I then had to divide up everything I have cut in equal measure into the six buckets, 1 for me to demonstrate and 5 for the ‘students’ I also did a quick arrangement in a vase to pretty up outside the door and after a few other bits had a sit down before they arrived at 2pm.

We then spent two hours learning about British grown flowers, how to cut, condition and look after the flowers in a vase. I demonstrated a hand tied while Tea and coffee was served along with some delicious blondies from Indulge by Amy. After that it was over to the ladies to get a bucket of flowers and make their own all by themselves. It all went very quiet, the concentration was intense but they all produce a hand tie that stood up as a hand tie should and were very pleased with themselves as was I because it meant I had taught well. We had a quick photo session before heading out to the garden for a look at where I grow the flowers, although not many out because I had cut them all the day before for the workshop 😂

Hand Tied flower workshop Oxfordshire, Flowers from the Farm
Fabulous time at my first flower workshop 🥰 more dates available in the year if anyone is interested.

I had a bit of a sit down for an hour or so after that before returning to tidy up. Now I have such a great space to work in I will be able to do so much more and one of the first things I did was a living vase bouquet which I was pleased with. The cellophane used is biodegradable and all other materials are either recyclable or compostable.

Celebration bouquet in a living vase now available 😀

And that was the end of a rather busy week lol, but I look forward to more busy weeks like that in the future. Thank you for reading have a great week x