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A few trips out, a couple of cream teas & flowers, flowers, flowers.

Monday: I have a week of social events ahead of me which makes a change from being here all week and working.

Today was the first event which was a regional meet up of Flowers from the Farm members from the South East. We met at Chippy Flower Farm which is about half an hour away and had a lovely morning talking about all things flower growing. The rain did try but the sun beat it off and so most of the morning the weather was pleasant. The last meet I went to was two years ago and so it was lovely to catch up with other growers from the area and discuss what everyone is growing, how they are growing it and what they are avoiding.

I got back home early afternoon and feeling inspired I had a quick lunch then went out to work on the garden finishing around 5pm, a very satisfying day.

Tuesday: Oscar day 🥰 He loves the tale of the Gingerbread Man that CBeebies do with some of the Orchestra so I thought this week I would give him a Gingerbread man to eat while he watched the Gingerbread man get eaten 😂

Wednesday: Another trip out this afternoon but first I had some cutting to do for funeral flowers to be delivered on Thursday. I went to get some pussy willow from further up the Smallholding and when I turned around I saw the most gorgeous hawthorn covered in blossom. It was so beautiful I had to cut it but of course it is covered in thorns so I painstakingly snipped the end off each thorn just so I could use it 😊

Sam came armed with black sacks of washing as her washing machine broke down and won’t be fixed for a few days. With three children in the house the wash pile builds up quickly so I told her to come over and use my machine.

Then it was time to go and pick up Mum and set off for my second trip out this week. I had booked tickets as a Mothers Day treat to take Mum and visit Highgrove Gardens, it’s not every day you get to see the King of Englands gardens but today we did. As it is a private residence there are strict security checks and protocols including no photography in the gardens themselves. I can imagine that some people would think the gardens are manicured with shinning terraces, nothing could be further from that than these beautifully crafted, unassuming, natural and calming gardens 🥰 We had a cream tea in the tea rooms (where you were allowed to take photos) delicious warm scones and a pot of English tea rounded the visit off nicely.

Thursday: I did a few of the usual household jobs in the morning and then spent a couple of hours working on a seasonal, natural and biodegradable sheaf for a funeral. It is always lovely when someone understands what it is I am doing and the reasons I do what I do, even better when it is exactly what they are looking for. We need to move away from floral foam with great haste because it is perfectly possible to provide flowers in all forms without it. I think those that do not want to give it up are possibly just afraid that the arrangements won’t be as good. It is a different way of doing flowers but in my opinion so much more natural than the regimental arrangements that have been forced upon us for many years 🤷‍♀️ For those that have the same vision for the world and nature that I do there is an alternative you just have to look for it, green funeral flowers, natural funeral flowers, sustainable funeral flowers are out there so if that is what you want make sure you tell your nearest and dearest 😊

Seasonal, natural, sustainable, 100% compostable, British grown funeral sheaf.

Friday: Another day, another outing 😂 like buses my days out all come along at once and this was the last one on the last day of the week. Afternoon tea with Charlie and my Mum, Charlie had booked it for my Mother’s Day present and for my Mums birthday which is next weekend. We went to Aston Pottery and I can highly recommend it, the food was delicious, the service was fabulous and you get to have a mooch around at all the beautiful goods they have for sale too.

My amazing Mum who will be 80 years young next weekend 🥰

Saturday: The wind has changed direction and it’s flipping cold today despite the sun trying it’s best to shine. I had a few bits to get done early before Sam came over with the twins, they were staying with me while Mia went for her riding lesson as it was too cold for them to be standing around. John went out early to get some sleepers, more about that in a mo. Once he came back we went to get a couple of bags of multipurpose compost for potting up plants for sale. We can’t use our own compost as it has animal manures mixed in and that is prohibited for selling. After that we had a delivery of flowers to make before grabbing a takeaway coffee and returning home. John then got on with digging out the concrete area that we are going to put a bed with a pergola over (where the dog kennels used to be) this will be for climbing plants such as jasmine, roses, chocolate vine and clematis, all are useful in flower arrangements and bouquets. While he worked on that I got some seed sowing done before everyone arrived.

Later in the afternoon I was able to get on with a bit more potting up now that I had some compost to do it with.

Sunday: A cold wind again but the sun seemed a little stronger today and so it was more bearable. We went out as early as possible just to get a few groceries before returning home to carry on with much the same as yesterday. Digging out MOD concrete is a task and a half, the kango gave out towards the end so John had to finish with a pick axe and lump hammer 🙄 We have had the kango for well over 20 years so it has exceeded its life expectancy 😂 Luckily there was not much left to do although I dare say it was much harder work with hand tools 🤪 Once I had finished pricking out seedlings or potting on plants I did a good bit of weeding on the front beds and took a few basal cuttings of dicentra because you can never have enough of that fabulous early flowering plant.

This week coming I will be trying to work off those cream teas before Easter cakes are on the menu.

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Rain 🙄 a new website and a demolition.

Monday 11th March 2024: I have a quieter week ahead which is always welcomed so that I can re focus and plan plus get some work done in the garden.

It was a tad chilly first thing so I did some household bits like change the beds and hoover, once it warmed up I went outside and got a few jobs done. Nothing major but all necessary, potting on, pricking out, dividing and planting up plus I took some basal cuttings from the delphiniums. I often do it with lupin as well but this year I have sown some seeds that I saved last year. I then spent a while tidying up the area in front of the old dog kennels. Originally I was going to grow climbers up and over it but it is disintegrating badly and so we have decided to take it down and replace it with a pergola, maybe even dig out the concrete underneath and create a proper bed. I could do with a tree out there to give some height to the area and a bit of shade would be useful for anything growing as it is always in full glaring sun. By mid afternoon the last few days work caught up with me and so I had a couple of hours resting while I watched a film lol.

Tuesday: Oscar day 🥰 I said to John this morning that it would be nice if one of these Tuesdays it wasn’t raining or freezing and then we could go out into the garden but so far it has mostly been horrible. On the odd occasion we get some dry warmish weather I take him for a walk down to the village but that is not today ☔️ The forecast looks a lot dried after today and the temps begin to creep up slightly, spring seems slow coming this year 🙄

Wednesday: It was a decent day and so I worked outside all day long, weeding and tidying the garden, got to make hay while the sun shines.

Thursday: Rain again 🙄 luckily I had arranged to go out for lunch with Sam so I pottered around for the morning and then off we went. By the time I got back there was not enough time to get stuck into any major jobs so more pottering before getting the dinner. In the evening I had a zoom meeting which was all about websites, that gave me the shove I needed to get mine sorted.

Friday: I managed to sort out the beginning of the process for my website. I had a domain but that was set up with Google who sold it to Square so I needed to transfer it to my preferred platform which was Fasthost. I thought it was going to be a bit of a nightmare because I had an old website for the Smallholding and wanted to swap them over. For a change the lady in the other end of the phone was amazing, wry helpful and helped me achieve my objective, happy days. I now had my domain transferred, my old website closed down and the new one could be built and I got a great deal which cost me £4 less than I was paying already 😊

I began the afternoon trying to build a new site 🤪 it has been many years since I have done that and was a bit rusty which bought out a lot of frustration (not felt like that since giving up that kind of technology lol)

I left it and we went round to see Florence as it was her 6th birthday today, she was very excited to be 6 🥰

Saturday: We had an epic day work wise, the old dog kennels that we had built when we came were falling apart and needed to come down. So we spent the day taking them down but by bit, burning any wood that was rotten, saving any wood that will be useful another time. We had a big bonfire and kept going until it was all down and cleared, which was about 6pm, tiring day but it is now done.

Sunday: More rain over night and quite a lot of it, I spent the morning cleaning and tidying the flower room. Finding places for everything, cleaning buckets and general clearing out. Meanwhile John was busy digging up the concrete where the dog kennels were because we are going to build another raised bed 😂 this one will be more for the climbers that were attempting to climb over the dilapidated kennels. It was hard going because it’s MOD concrete and about 20ft thick, well not quite but it was put done in the days when they did the job properly.

In the afternoon we did nothing for a few hours, we had earned a rest I think. I then started the website again and carried on doing that until bedtime. I had managed to polish my rusty skills, it is not a great website but it does the job and I can carry in tweaking it when I get time. It is live but I still need to get an SSL certificate sorted so that it is a safe site to visit otherwise no traffic will be sent my way.

Halfway through taking down the dilapidated kennels
And then it was gone 😊
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Traffic, flowers (lots) & Mothers Day.

Monday March 4th 2024: Chaos this morning, we have had increased traffic through our lane due to a closed road further across. Although the diversion sends them elsewhere they insist on driving down our small country lanes because it is a cut through, not a problem except that half of them have no idea how to drive on country lanes 🙄 They are not two way traffic lanes but having been in the car when they come hurtling towards you, you have to wonder what they actually see around them 😂 Where is the other car supposed to go when the other one won’t slow down 🤷‍♀️ Large deer regularly jump out into the lanes and I only hope nobody meets one of those at speed because it won’t be pretty. Add to that this morning and the main arterial road nearby was shut due to a bad accident, cue even more cars trying to find a way through, total chaos 😬 I don’t think I have seen nose to tail traffic in the village before, every small road around the village and into the next town was clogged with those on the school run or going to work. On top of that we have had three cars that I know of that have hit a pothole coming towards ours and ended up stationary with burst tyres right outside our driveway. We go out and tell them to get the car in the drive and off the road if they can, poor chap last night lost two tyres one front and one back, the poor chap this morning hit it at 5.15am and was still on our driveway at 10.30am! Meanwhile I had an appointment at the dentist and John had called to say they had closed another part of the road off that leads to our lane and he couldn’t get through so was going to have to go right round, yep right into all that traffic! We made our way painfully through the village and into the next town and I was half an hour late, I got out of the car and walked the last leg of the way as it was quicker, luckily I had phoned them and the person I was seeing was also stuck in traffic, crazy morning.

Once back home, the traffic having dissipated by now, the sun came out and so I spent the rest of the morning in the greenhouse sowing seeds. I was looking through my seed stash thinking ‘I am never going to be able to plant all these, I have no idea why I have soo many’ but I will give it a good go lol.

Tuesday: Oscar day 🥰 Activities range from singing, eating, playing, sleeping to little walks and playing with his second cousin Ayda 😊

Wednesday: Busy day today and lots of different jobs to get done. First a quick whip round with the hoover and a bit of polish. Next nip over to the flower room and wash out a lot of buckets ready for flowers. Then a quick pit stop to have my hair cut before taking a flower delivery and preparing them for conditioning. Once they were all safety sat in fresh clean water it was quick lunch before going out to the greenhouse and pricking out some seedlings. Then onto weeding and clearing the flower beds at the far end of the garden, the area I originally earmarked for flowers. It is still for flowers but now so is the rest of the garden and the tunnels 😂 I think I earned a sit down so that’s what I did and a few minutes later John arrived home and made a cuppa. He got changed and went to see his brother as it is his birthday today and I filled up a bucket with some fresh water and went out to cut hellebore ready for Mother’s Day flowers. I have a few other bits to cut tomorrow and then I will be ready for a mammoth flower weekend 🥰

I will be juggling jobs like that for a few weeks now, seedlings, weeding, planting, flower arranging as well as everything domestic. My plan is to work smarter not harder and so I am trying to get any weed suppressing systems in place as well as staking and mulching, all of these should, should be hugely beneficial for time saving 🤞 Who knows I may even have time each day just to sit and look 🤪

Thursday: I did a few household bits first thing before going off to Witney with Charlie and Oscar. We had a mooch round, I bought some bits to put my hair up, when the girls were at home there were always bobbles about but they have long since disappeared. We had a coffee and a bit more of a mooch before heading back home. I had a quick lunch and then I went out to cut some pussy willow for the big flower weekend plus a few daffodils and some anemone. Then into the greenhouse to sow some seeds and I was going to do some work outside but it’s cold again today so I came back inside. I know what’s coming, it will be straight into hot weather I bet 🤪

I have a lot of orders to start getting ready tomorrow so I guess a little calm before the storm won’t hurt.

Friday: Wooooooosh I have worked solidly all day today making up the bouquets and bunches of flowers going out tomorrow and Sunday and I still have to wrap them all tomorrow. But what an absolute pleasure of a job it was even if my back was aching by the end of the day. I still have enquiries coming in but having used almost every single stem in the place I am having to say no 🙄 I d have a fair amount of foliage left thigh so if anyone wants a foliage bunch it’s a yes 😂 I was hoping to get outside and do a bit as the sun was out but by the time I finished checking and double checking that I had everyone’s order done and then cleared up it was too late for anything else.

Saturday: I spent the morning wrapping bouquets, John went off to deliver some memorial flowers and then in the afternoon I had customers coming to collect some of the orders, the rest will be collected tomorrow morning. In the evening we went out with Shelley, Martin Josh and Flo for a meal at a local italian restaurant. The evening was lovely and the food was great, it is not something we do often so it was a real treat.

Sunday: Yesterday the weather was lovely and today it was back to grey drizzle 🙄 With customers coming all morning I couldn’t really get started on any bigger jobs that need doing so I just pottered around. By noon all of the flowers had been collected and it was time for me to go and see my Mum, delivering the last bouquet to her which my brother in Australia had ordered from me lol. Sam, Mia and Lucie met me at Mums, my sister was there with her partner and little girl too. We had tea and cake and chatted then back home to let the dogs out before going out again. This time to Charlie and Maccas, they were cooking Sunday lunch for us as well as Maccas Mum and her friend.

A lovely weekend of happy faces and happy customers, I have thoroughly enjoyed every bit of it 😊

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Rain, cold and finally some sunshine.

Monday 26th February 2024: Not frosty this morning but we have a cold wind instead 🙄 It’s lunchtime and I am just sitting down writing this up while I wait for my beef broth to defrost and heat up in the pan. Apart from the usual jobs one of the first things I did this morning was go out and pot up some more rhubarb plants. I dug up a huge root last year and divided it, potting some of them up and the rest just got left. I put the potted pants up for sale and had such a response I thought I better pot up the rest. Luckily rhubarb root weathers the winter well and then spring into life again which is exactly what all these have done so I might as well sell them on rather than compost them.

Next I decided to clean the kitchen, I had to wait for a few people coming to collect things so I figured I could do that and keep an eye out for anyone arriving. It really needed doing, there were cobwebs and everything in the corners 😂 Once upon a time I would have done a full clean weekly but not any more, life is too short for that, instead I tend to tackle one room intensely and skim the rest. That way everything gets a good clean every now and then and I get to do other more pleasurable tasks 😊

Tuesday: Oscar day, we did venture out for a little walk in the afternoon as it was not raining and the sun was trying, the wind was cold though so it was a short round trip of the village lol.

Wednesday: Have I ever said that February is my least favourite month of the year, I probably have 😂 It’s just that you seem to be waiting an age for things to warm up a little, even though this winter has been fairly mild so far. It is the dull, grey that is depressing and this year has been one of the dullest with only 36hrs of sunshine recorded apparently, I mean come on that’s bloody stingy isn’t it Mother Nature 🙄

Meanwhile I occupy myself with preparations for Mothers Day and Easter and hopefully the not too far away spring temperatures. It is the time of year when I try to do a good bit of learning and I often discover things I want to have a go at doing.

It is Shelley’s birthday today and she booked herself the day off, we are pretty much a family of self employed so she is her own boss and gave herself permission to enjoy her birthday 😂 We went out for a lovely lunch and a wander round the local upmarket garden company. When John comes home we will pop round to hers for some birthday cake 🎂

When I returned home I found a lovely delivery of plants, always a great cheer up moment on a dull, wet, cold day. These are eryngium, two different types to the ones I already have, a lovely white one which will be amazing dried hopefully and a blue one with more star like qualities than the blue one I have already.

Thursday: You know some days you just want to scream lol, no wonder mental health and stress levels are off the scale these days. A morning of trying to get things sorted or waiting for updates is crucial but so much time wasted 🙄 Trying to track a shipment that the tracking app wants to link to an email address I don’t use and didn’t use when I purchased the goods. So now I can’t find out the tracking number and have no idea when it will be delivered or even if it will. I tried several ways of rectifying the problem to no avail so I have to just wait and see what happens, if anything, not great.

Next was trying to ring and get a prescription 😣 Every day I think the NHS systems are broken just a little bit more and it just borders on ridiculous at the minute. Once you actually get where you need to be the service is great but ffs getting there is painful. I have been with the same practice since I was 5 yrs old, in all those years I knew who my doctors was and what they looked like, every one of them. Covid comes along and everything changes (fair enough) but things have never gone back to how they were and are so much worse now. You can barely even speak to a human being, go round in circles and just get left in limbo. First they put up plastic shields to talk through and now they won’t even talk to you, you are at the mercy of an answer machine or an online system that does not function fully 😡 Even worse for those who are not digitally adept or the elderly. To add insult to injury they then send you a ‘rate your appointment’ message well I rate my appointment, great but I would rate the system to get there in the first place defunct! 0, nil, shite to be perfectly honest. They are pushing people towards private health care which is all well and good but the elderly or someone like me with a long term chronic illness has no hope of that so we are just hung out to die I reckon, and that is how I feel today, I just want to cry.

I had Oscar for a couple of hours while Charlie went to get something sorted out (another system that has gone awry 🙄) I waited for my deliveries, one said delivered ( the most important one) but it wasn’t and I was just about to message the sender when the van turned up with it, so the delivery driver obviously pre programmed delivery which is fine but stressed me out. The other deliveries turned up at various points in the day.

Once Charlie had collected Oscar I made some lunch and then went out to the flower room to have a couple of hours doing flowery things. When I am doing that I am not thinking of anything else which is nice and relaxing. I have orders coming in thick and fast for Mothers Day as well as other orders, it’s nice to be working with flowers again.

British grown, on the bulb, muscari, a first for us 🥰

Friday: It rained a lot last night and looks like it will be the wettest February on record as well as the dullest 😂 I have been busy doing flower things today, I have had a lot of work come in this week and that’s on top of Mothers Day orders lol, I am not complaining though as I love doing it. I will have to balance it a bit more carefully once I am working outside more too or there won’t be enough hours in the day I am sure of that 🤪

Saturday: More flipping rain and quite a bit of it, the temperature is cold, wind chill even colder. I want to get in the greenhouse but I need ungloved hands for the work I want to do and they just keep going blue 🙄 pretty please can we have some sunshine soon 🙏 The spring flowers I have growing need a bit of warmth to spur them along, I was hoping to have lots of tulips ready for Mothers Day but I think they will probably make an appearance the week after 🤪 This flower farming lark is unpredictable at the best of times especially if you are not using heat and purely relying on Mother Nature which is more sustainable. There is not a decent solar heater on the market yet so that is not even an option, if you use bubble wrap you run the risk of mildew with all this wet damp weather, it is a no win situation at the minute so we just keep holding on and hoping.

I spent a quick half an hour making sure I have enough stems ordered for Mothers Day, I will have some flowers I can cut but I need to supplement with flowers from other British growers at this time of year and that is a bit of a balancing act 😬

Sunday: We had some sunshine and it was most welcome 😊 It started of foggy and frosty but the sun was trying hard to break through and eventually did so we made the most of the day. John spent the day cleaning out chickens, cleaning the car and mowing the grass. I spent the day potting up dahlias that had started to grow, some peony plants, strawberry plant plus some eryngium that need to go in the ground but we have another frost forecast so I potted them for now. Sam arrived for a visit with the children and they had bought some seeds they wanted to grow, strawberries and tomatoes. So we went into the greenhouse and they had a lesson on seed sowing, if they make it home still in the compost in one piece I will be surprised 🤪 but it’s good they have an interest and they can watch them daily to see how they are doing. Once they had gone a barrowed some woodchip put on the paths in the garden then cut some fresh greens from the greenhouse for our dinner later.

All the dahlias are now in separate pots and languishing in the kitchen for the next few weeks until it is warm enough to put the into the tunnels.

I had someone coming to collect some flowers, some rhubarb roots to drop to a neighbour, cook the dinner then I am done for the day, but it was a good, productive and fairly warm day.

Dahlias in the kitchen for a few weeks, it is a steady 16c in there so perfect conditions for them 😊