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Flowers, birthdays & eye clinic again 🙄

Monday 21st August 2023: Up early to get flowers fixed onto hats and get them delivered and then the rest of the day is my own. It looks like the weather will be quite nice today.

For the next rainy day or when I am feeling a bit tired I have signed up for another online tuition course. I find the online ones great because you can fit them in around everything else and at your own pace but I still would like to do an in person weekend somewhere at some point. I think you always need to invest in your own learning even if you are teaching others and besides I love the opportunity to learn something new or how to do things differently.

Shelley came over with Josh and Flo and we went for a walk along the lane and picked blackberries while we were there. Not sure what else I did that day lol.

Tuesday: Oscar day 🥰 it is a day of playing, feeding, napping and bum changes. My sister came over with her granddaughter who is three months younger, it was more successful this week as Oscar was not clingy and once he got used them being here he was happy to play 😊

In the evening I used some of the flowers I cut yesterday to do some arrangement practice, proportion be be precise which looks easy but only if the stems are behaving and going the way you want them to 😜

Wednesday: Eye clinic appointment day 🙄 now you would think that if I had an appointment time it would be quicker than the emergency eye dept but no, well not much anyway. A 9.50 appointment and we got out at 2pm 😂 shaved a couple of hours off the last two times but that’s it. I was sitting in the waiting room with plenty of other bemused patients watching the game of musical chairs going on. Not enough chairs for patients waiting many who came with carers or partners (because after all it does say that you should not drive yourself there in case you need something put in your eyes) the staff also moving along anyone who couldn’t find a seat and was standing, which is a fire risk. Not the fault of the staff I understand that but the system seems chaotic at best and a bloody shambles at its worst, still I acknowledge that we are lucky to have a system at all. More steroid drops for a further 10 weeks, blood tests and a chest X-ray this time too, all to do with checking for inflammation markers, oh yes and the doctor can see the beginning of cataracts, oh joy 😏

By the time we got home it was too hot outside for me to do much, John went off to get a couple of things sorted for plumbing jobs coming up and I should have done something indoors but didn’t 😜

Once the shade had moved to the front area I did go out there and do around three hours of weeding which felt like I had accomplished something today at least. I sat and watched a knot, flutter, host, quarrel, or crew(take your pick as to what you call them) of sparrows feasting on the weeds in the driveway. I have no idea what they found so tasty but it did make me glad that we have weeds 😂 I wrestle between wanting to have everything looking tidy and knowing that the wildlife need me to not tidy everything. There are those that will say you can have both but the more I watch the more I disagree, we have never had so much wildlife as we do this year and as a consequence we have very few pest problems. If you give the pests their natural food to feed on they will leave the flowers alone it seems either that or we have so many birds and predator insects that the balance is good 😊

John was busy cutting grass in the front paddock again, it has been left long all summer but now needs attention, that and we have an occasion on Saturday and are hosting Oscars birthday party 🥳

We came in at around 7.30pm and then I had to start getting the dinner! We didn’t eat until around 8.15 which is way too late for me really, I like to have a good 12 hrs between dinner and breakfast. Apart from a cup of tea it’s a bit like fasting and gives the gut a rest. Finally sit down at 9 but not finished yet as I have to log on and order medication and

Thursday: I cut flower first thing for an order tomorrow then did some dried flower bits and pieces including some experimental pieces to see if they would work for real. One was a ‘vine ball’ that would be covers in tiny lights to hang from the ceiling, this was harder than it looks 😂 I guess the vines need to be on the turn but not brittle and you need vines that don’t have sharp angles growing in a different direction. I will get there in the end though.

Charlie arrived with Oscar as I was having him for a couple of hours while she had an appointment, Shelley also arrived shortly after with the children. We were going to go for a walk but Oscar needed his afternoon sleep so we stayed home instead.

In the evening I made up the flowers that are being collected tomorrow and had a play with the frog pin for flower arranging, not bad for a first effort if I do say so myself 😊

I am doing an online course with Willow Crossley, it is not entirely my thing but already I have learnt a fair bit and I am having a go and learning some new skills so that is all I want really.

Friday: It is 12.30pm and I have had a cracking morning getting lots of things done and only half an hour over the time frame I set myself. I had a time frame because I had two reminders set on my phone, one to take steroid drops and the other to get meat out of the freezer for tomorrow’s party, both set for midday.

First job this morning was to cut flowers for a couple of celebration bouquets for tomorrow morning. Once that was done I went out into the greenhouse to sow some seeds for next springs flowers. Then onto tidying up the cold frame area, to be honest it gets used as a store area for potted on plants or growing seedling/plants or an area to hold dormant bulbs in pots for next spring. I sorted it all, threw away anything that was only barely hanging on, emptied out those plants that were sat in water (normally in trays to catch the watering but so much rain this summer they are sat in it 🙄) I put another greenhouse shelf thingy in and got the plants up off the floor where there is a slugfest going on 😜 I washed out all the (now) empty trays and pots and put them away to dry. On next to the two buxus shrubs I have which flank either side of the greenhouse door, they are quite big now and I grew them from tiny little whips. They get a bit neglected and so it was time to empty them out replace soil, give them a good water and a feed before winter. They might even put on enough growth to clip them back into their ball shape which has gone a little bit askew. First thing I found in the first pot was a red ants nest, no wonder it wasn’t looking too good. I took both shrubs out, hosed off the roots, dug anything else that was growing in the pot that shouldn’t be, replaced the soil and gave them some blood, fish and bone, hopefully they will look splendid in a couple of weeks time. Sometime while doing those my reminder alarm went off and eventually I came in put drops in my eyes, got the meat out of the freezer and had a small lunch. The weather is great for me today, not too hot and plenty of cloud with some sunshine.

Just gone 3pm and I am done for now, pooped, I went back outside after the quick pit stop lunch and got on with some more jobs. Everywhere you look there is another job and another job that needs doing but I needed to focus on one area at a time. I wanted to get the sweet peas out and the cornflowers (gather the seed from them as I go) get the bed topped up and covered which I did. I also found some self sown cerinthe which I potted up along with some verbena. Then onto weeding the other beds, collecting seed from the Burpleurum and some bunny tail grass plantlets oh and some seeds from the snow princess marigolds which have been lovely, a pretty pale yellow.

Literally just as I sat down Sam arrived with George and Lucie, Mia was at pony club for the day and they called in on their way to collect her as it is nearby. The twins then wanted to stay with me while Sam actually went to collect Mia which was fine, when they came back they all went out to do the horses water and check them over. Mia has been pretty dedicated to riding, she is always keen in all weathers which is what you need to be. When Sam was young she was the same, I would take her to lessons then as she got older she would stay and help and eventually she was there all day and evening whenever possible 😂

John came home and did some more grass cutting in the front paddock where the party will be tomorrow. I had flowers to make up into bouquets ready for collection first thing in the morning.

Saturday: Oscars belated party day 🥳 we were up early to get things sorted with Charlie and Macca, gazebo up, bell tent up, bubble machine, music, bouncy castle, bbq picked up (we don’t have one lol) meat, salad, bread rolls and drink all sorted. Hand over flower order to customer inbetween all that 😜 do some flowers for decoration just because I can, get changed and wait for guests to arrive.

It was a lovely afternoon, we had a couple of showers one of which was heavy and had accompanying thunder claps but mostly it was dry and sunny.

Sunday: Weather looks like it might hold today but who knows 🤷‍♀️ I spent the morning cutting a few dahlias which is a few more than I have been able to cut recently due to the rain. I then pruned two dwarf apple trees and a pear that are in the cutting garden, picking the fruit as I went.

In the afternoon we went over to a local country show where there was plenty going on including extreme horse riding which was brilliant to watch and mesmerising at times. I had a happy little find on a bric a brac stall with these little stone pots at a bargain price of £2 for all four, happy days. We spent the whole afternoon there and not one drop of rain, amazing 😂

Back home to a quiet evening and recoup ready for a new week, although it is August bank holiday Monday tomorrow 😊

My lovely little pot find 🥰