August 2023 – frieslandfarm (flowers)

Flowers, birthdays & eye clinic again 🙄

Posted on August 28, 2023 by frieslandfarm

Monday 21st August 2023: Up early to get flowers fixed onto hats and get them delivered and then the rest of the day is my own. It looks like the weather will be quite nice today.

For the next rainy day or when I am feeling a bit tired I have signed up for another online tuition course. I find the online ones great because you can fit them in around everything else and at your own pace but I still would like to do an in person weekend somewhere at some point. I think you always need to invest in your own learning even if you are teaching others and besides I love the opportunity to learn something new or how to do things differently.

Shelley came over with Josh and Flo and we went for a walk along the lane and picked blackberries while we were there. Not sure what else I did that day lol.

Tuesday: Oscar day 🥰 it is a day of playing, feeding, napping and bum changes. My sister came over with her granddaughter who is three months younger, it was more successful this week as Oscar was not clingy and once he got used them being here he was happy to play 😊

In the evening I used some of the flowers I cut yesterday to do some arrangement practice, proportion be be precise which looks easy but only if the stems are behaving and going the way you want them to 😜

Wednesday: Eye clinic appointment day 🙄 now you would think that if I had an appointment time it would be quicker than the emergency eye dept but no, well not much anyway. A 9.50 appointment and we got out at 2pm 😂 shaved a couple of hours off the last two times but that’s it. I was sitting in the waiting room with plenty of other bemused patients watching the game of musical chairs going on. Not enough chairs for patients waiting many who came with carers or partners (because after all it does say that you should not drive yourself there in case you need something put in your eyes) the staff also moving along anyone who couldn’t find a seat and was standing, which is a fire risk. Not the fault of the staff I understand that but the system seems chaotic at best and a bloody shambles at its worst, still I acknowledge that we are lucky to have a system at all. More steroid drops for a further 10 weeks, blood tests and a chest X-ray this time too, all to do with checking for inflammation markers, oh yes and the doctor can see the beginning of cataracts, oh joy 😏

By the time we got home it was too hot outside for me to do much, John went off to get a couple of things sorted for plumbing jobs coming up and I should have done something indoors but didn’t 😜

Once the shade had moved to the front area I did go out there and do around three hours of weeding which felt like I had accomplished something today at least. I sat and watched a ‘knot, flutter, host, quarrel, or crew’ (take your pick as to what you call them) of sparrows feasting on the weeds in the driveway. I have no idea what they found so tasty but it did make me glad that we have weeds 😂 I wrestle between wanting to have everything looking tidy and knowing that the wildlife need me to not tidy everything. There are those that will say you can have both but the more I watch the more I disagree, we have never had so much wildlife as we do this year and as a consequence we have very few pest problems. If you give the pests their natural food to feed on they will leave the flowers alone it seems either that or we have so many birds and predator insects that the balance is good 😊

John was busy cutting grass in the front paddock again, it has been left long all summer but now needs attention, that and we have an occasion on Saturday and are hosting Oscars birthday party 🥳

We came in at around 7.30pm and then I had to start getting the dinner! We didn’t eat until around 8.15 which is way too late for me really, I like to have a good 12 hrs between dinner and breakfast. Apart from a cup of tea it’s a bit like fasting and gives the gut a rest. Finally sit down at 9 but not finished yet as I have to log on and order medication and

Thursday: I cut flower first thing for an order tomorrow then did some dried flower bits and pieces including some experimental pieces to see if they would work for real. One was a ‘vine ball’ that would be covers in tiny lights to hang from the ceiling, this was harder than it looks 😂 I guess the vines need to be on the turn but not brittle and you need vines that don’t have sharp angles growing in a different direction. I will get there in the end though.

Charlie arrived with Oscar as I was having him for a couple of hours while she had an appointment, Shelley also arrived shortly after with the children. We were going to go for a walk but Oscar needed his afternoon sleep so we stayed home instead.

In the evening I made up the flowers that are being collected tomorrow and had a play with the frog pin for flower arranging, not bad for a first effort if I do say so myself 😊

I am doing an online course with Willow Crossley, it is not entirely my thing but already I have learnt a fair bit and I am having a go and learning some new skills so that is all I want really.

Friday: It is 12.30pm and I have had a cracking morning getting lots of things done and only half an hour over the time frame I set myself. I had a time frame because I had two reminders set on my phone, one to take steroid drops and the other to get meat out of the freezer for tomorrow’s party, both set for midday.

First job this morning was to cut flowers for a couple of celebration bouquets for tomorrow morning. Once that was done I went out into the greenhouse to sow some seeds for next springs flowers. Then onto tidying up the cold frame area, to be honest it gets used as a store area for potted on plants or growing seedling/plants or an area to hold dormant bulbs in pots for next spring. I sorted it all, threw away anything that was only barely hanging on, emptied out those plants that were sat in water (normally in trays to catch the watering but so much rain this summer they are sat in it 🙄) I put another greenhouse shelf thingy in and got the plants up off the floor where there is a slugfest going on 😜 I washed out all the (now) empty trays and pots and put them away to dry. On next to the two buxus shrubs I have which flank either side of the greenhouse door, they are quite big now and I grew them from tiny little whips. They get a bit neglected and so it was time to empty them out replace soil, give them a good water and a feed before winter. They might even put on enough growth to clip them back into their ball shape which has gone a little bit askew. First thing I found in the first pot was a red ants nest, no wonder it wasn’t looking too good. I took both shrubs out, hosed off the roots, dug anything else that was growing in the pot that shouldn’t be, replaced the soil and gave them some blood, fish and bone, hopefully they will look splendid in a couple of weeks time. Sometime while doing those my reminder alarm went off and eventually I came in put drops in my eyes, got the meat out of the freezer and had a small lunch. The weather is great for me today, not too hot and plenty of cloud with some sunshine.

Just gone 3pm and I am done for now, pooped, I went back outside after the quick pit stop lunch and got on with some more jobs. Everywhere you look there is another job and another job that needs doing but I needed to focus on one area at a time. I wanted to get the sweet peas out and the cornflowers (gather the seed from them as I go) get the bed topped up and covered which I did. I also found some self sown cerinthe which I potted up along with some verbena. Then onto weeding the other beds, collecting seed from the Burpleurum and some bunny tail grass plantlets oh and some seeds from the snow princess marigolds which have been lovely, a pretty pale yellow.

Literally just as I sat down Sam arrived with George and Lucie, Mia was at pony club for the day and they called in on their way to collect her as it is nearby. The twins then wanted to stay with me while Sam actually went to collect Mia which was fine, when they came back they all went out to do the horses water and check them over. Mia has been pretty dedicated to riding, she is always keen in all weathers which is what you need to be. When Sam was young she was the same, I would take her to lessons then as she got older she would stay and help and eventually she was there all day and evening whenever possible 😂

John came home and did some more grass cutting in the front paddock where the party will be tomorrow. I had flowers to make up into bouquets ready for collection first thing in the morning.

Saturday: Oscars belated party day 🥳 we were up early to get things sorted with Charlie and Macca, gazebo up, bell tent up, bubble machine, music, bouncy castle, bbq picked up (we don’t have one lol) meat, salad, bread rolls and drink all sorted. Hand over flower order to customer inbetween all that 😜 do some flowers for decoration just because I can, get changed and wait for guests to arrive.

It was a lovely afternoon, we had a couple of showers one of which was heavy and had accompanying thunder claps but mostly it was dry and sunny.

Sunday: Weather looks like it might hold today but who knows 🤷‍♀️ I spent the morning cutting a few dahlias which is a few more than I have been able to cut recently due to the rain. I then pruned two dwarf apple trees and a pear that are in the cutting garden, picking the fruit as I went.

In the afternoon we went over to a local country show where there was plenty going on including extreme horse riding which was brilliant to watch and mesmerising at times. I had a happy little find on a bric a brac stall with these little stone pots at a bargain price of £2 for all four, happy days. We spent the whole afternoon there and not one drop of rain, amazing 😂

Back home to a quiet evening and recoup ready for a new week, although it is August bank holiday Monday tomorrow 😊

Friesland Farm

Plums, apples and sunflowers 🌻

Posted on August 20, 2023 by frieslandfarm

Monday 14th August 2023: Another not so great summers day, I know it’s late summer but seriously it was more like autumn today. I am not sure we are going to get much of summer now, it would matter so much but Winter is loooooong and depressing enough on it’s own 😜

I decided to do something constructive today and as outside was a right off and I have spent more than enough time on flowers I thought I ought to clean the boot room. We have a proper boot room, not one of those you see in a glossy magazine that is all pristine and neat as if the occupant has no real idea what a boot room is for 😂 It is a working boot room and not for show or somewhere you keep clean wellies. The wellies still have mud on them, the coats would probably be thrown in the rag bin if you gave them to a charity shop and there is ‘stuff’ dumped everywhere. The dogs and cats eat and sleep in there and it gets pretty dusty or wet mud splattered on every surface. Saying I clean it is probably going a bit far, I hoover every nook and cranny, wipe down wipeable surfaces and give the dog beds a wipe over with disinfectant (because it smells like cherries and is lovely) it still takes me well over an hour to do just the basics though. I think the hoover is on the way out, we only use that hoover for that room and when that breaks we buy a new house one and the house one becomes the boot room one. We keep them separate because hoovering up pet hair and dust makes it smell a bit musty and I don’t want that lingering in the house. A couple of times after turning it off it would not turn on again until a few minutes later 🙄 I told John when he came home and he helpfully said ‘is the bag full’ ‘nope I changed that before I started so it’s not that’ looks like I will be buying g a new house hoover soon.

John did some more strimming when he came home from work while I got the dinner sorted and then we went to mums for a cuppa. When we got back a friend had dropped round two crates full of Victoria plums, the bough of her tree had snapped under the weight of them and she didn’t want them to go to waste. Our tree has not been that prolific this year and so I can definitely use some of them, the rest will be given away to various family and friends that want them. At one time I would have done a big batch cook up with them or made sauce or jam but these days I am not so inclined 😜 I will freeze plenty to use in the winter and probably make a few jars of jam.

When the bough breaks, the plums they will fall 😜

Tuesday: Oscar day today and he was very clingy and whingy all day lol. My sister came round with her granddaughter for a play date but Oscar was not having any of it and in the end I put him down for a sleep. We will try again another day but today was not a success 😂

In the evening I did a bit of dried flower work but really was too tired to do much else.

Wednesday: I whizzed round and got a few things done before Shelley came to pick me up and we went to meet Sam and Charlie at a sunflower field on a local farm. I didn’t even know it was there to be honest but it’s a little gem of a place, a lovely cafe with good food, great coffee, delicious ice cream and sunflowers too. Of all the cloudy days we have had over summer today was t really one of them 🙄 there was intermittent cloud but when the sun was out boy it was hot 🥵 not the best for me but I did have my hat and sun cream on because as you can imagine there is no shade where sunflowers grow.

We all had a wonderful time playing in the pathways that had been cut through the sunflowers and then ice cream while watching the harvested grain being sent up the shute to the silo. George was in his element with all the tractors and trailers coming and going, he is crazy mad about tractors and definitely wants to drive one when he is older 🥰

Pretty tired again this evening after today lol.

Thursday: I did quite a bit this morning in the poly tunnel, clearing dying mint foliage and weeds, trying to stake chrysanthemums which are leaning over and then dead heading anything that needed doing. Next I dug some bits of apple mint up to propagate, I had planted it with two other types of mint but it seems to be the weaker one and got a bit smothered. I definitely want much more of it for next year so need to propagate it now before it disappears altogether. I watered the small tunnel and then turned on the water in the big tunnel.

Sam arrived with the children and I was having them for a few hours while she did some work. They were full of boundless energy today and Nana not so much. We went and looked for blackberries in the small paddock at the back but the grass is so long the gate hardly opens so we came back down to find things to pick in the garden. We found tomatoes, cucumbers and a few logan berries, George had spotted the cooking apples and wanted to take some of them home to make ‘pudding pie’ 😂 It is lovely that they know they can find things to eat in my garden but there is not a lot left when they do!

Again in the evening I was tired but I really needed to do a few things, we are forecast thunderstorms and rain tomorrow and I wanted to get some flowers cut before then, and some orach cut for drying. The weather is really a pain in the arse at the minute, it is either raining or bloody hot, not much inbetween. I know it is much better than some places in the world but it is not great for the flowers, if you get sunshine it brings the flowers out and then the next day it rains and spoils them 🙄 If we get the rain tomorrow I have plenty of indoor jobs to do but it would be nice to have a couple of (not too hot or not raining) days in a row doing outside jobs.

Friday: It is 7.30 am and already heavy rain 🙄 it’s dark enough to need the lights on indoors, a snapshot of what lies ahead in the darker months. I quite like the seasons for that, even though we have not had much of a summer, when the time comes to close the curtains early and put the lights on it’s quite comforting. As I said I have a long list of indoor jobs to choose from so hopefully I will still have a productive day.

Oscar has to go to hospital today for an operation which is a shame because tomorrow is his first birthday and a party was all planned. That had to be moved to next week, it’s best to take the date you are offered in the current climate of strikes and post covid hangover problems.

I decided to get apples and plums prepped for the freezer, always takes a lot longer than you think especially peeling the apples when my hand is still not 100% yet. I would have gone the whole hog and made crumbles etc but there is no sugar in the cupboard so that will have to wait. I now have about 5kg of plums frozen 😂 and endless amounts of apples still to do, I am thinking of all the yummy puddings in the depths of winter and will be glad of them then. I keep toying with the idea of am,ing plum jam but John doesn’t like plum jam nor any other jam except strawberry, raspberry at a push so my efforts are wasted on him. The same applies to chutney, he won’t touch that at all no matter what is in it 😜 so not much point making that either 😏

While I was indoors it meant I could get a signal and wait to hear about Oscar and he has returned from surgery safely thank goodness 🥰 no matter what the operation it is one of the longest wait for parents especially when they are so little.

Saturday: We spent the best part of the day doing jobs around the farm, I have plug plants to pot up plus plenty of weeding and hoeing. I also spent a good deal of time hoovering the flower room, a quick sweep each time is ok but occasionally it needs more. I was thinking while I was doing it that it’s no good doing this if you don’t like spiders and creepy crawlies because they often can be found on the flowers and foliage and then get bought inside where they set up home 😂 Meanwhile John has been busy strimming and mowing, with all the rain everything has gone mad plus when we did get chance the mower broke. Now that is mended and the weather is more settled (mostly) we can at least get a handle on things and the place is starting to look much tidier than before.

Mid afternoon we went over to see Oscar for his 1st birthday 🥳 He was asleep for the first hour or so when we were there but eventually he woke up and we were able to give him his present and sing happy birthday to him. I think he was a bit bemused wondering why everyone was looking at him and singing lol.

Back home in the evening and we watched a film rather than doing any more work.

Sunday: The weather was nice and we had a lot of work to do so got on with it early. I had a flower workshop at 10am for a couple of hours then some lunch before sorting out the flowers for the hats I needed to do. I was worried that the flowers were not going to go overnight without water, initially the customer wanted to collect them tonight for tomorrow but I rang and said I would be happier dropping them off early in the morning so that they could stay in water overnight and I can attach them to the hats just before they get delivered. I have tried to use flowers that will do well enough out of water for a few hours which is a challenge, things like sedum and Pom Pom dahlias have more of a tolerance than things like cosmos which would just keel over.

Again John spent his time strimming and mowing 😜

Lately I have seen a couple of insects that I haven’t seen before, flying insects one I would class as a bee type and the other a moth but I didn’t have my phone either time so couldn’t get a photo. I don’t recognise either of them so I am hoping I will see them again when I have my phone with me. John is also sure he saw…..wait for it…… a door mouse 😮 if that is indeed what it was then oh my days that would be epic. He is used to seeing field mice and wood mice and it wasn’t the same though again we have no photo to clarify. The reason he saw it was because it was underneath the Guinea pigs bowl which had upturned otherwise he wouldn’t have. We do have plenty of hazel trees and when I say plenty I mean at least 15 all in one place and then plenty all around the rest of the farm so it is possible that we might have them, I will have to check the fallen nuts this year to see if they have been chewed. It would be very exciting but chances are it is some other type like harvest mouse or something lol.

Friesland Farm

Work, rain & grandchildren.

Posted on August 14, 2023August 14, 2023 by frieslandfarm

Monday August 7th 2023: I was rather annoyed with myself yesterday evening because I could have got a good amount done but I didn’t bother lol. So this morning I was determined to make a bit of a dent on the front driveway mess. Circumstances meant I couldn’t do any of it for months and now it is getting on my nerves, the constant rain hasn’t helped and I probably couldn’t have got much of it done anyway but still. I have hoed, weeded, mown, raked, cut, shovelled and still only half finished at lunchtime. In my head I thought it would only take a couple of hours 😂 Because I couldn’t do much with my hand and arm for the last three months I am very out of shape, I should have done a lot of walking but in the beginning even that was painful so now I am paying the price. The sun is out, I started at 8am to get the cooler part of the day but it has got too hot unless it clouds over a good bit I will leave it until later. Once I have stopped sweating I will find something else to do a little less energetic.

I think I spent too long in the sun and felt a bit ill for a short while 😏 so had to have a sit down, fml sometimes 😜 Fed up with the limitations my body seems to want to put on me because my mind is having none of it and wants to get on 😂

I had flowers to make up for collection mid afternoon, I am also watching my flowers closely as I have two lots of jam jar collections to do at the weekend. Normally I say that I can’t guarantee colour choices but will accommodate them where possible and one lot is for pink and white (baby shower) and the other lot is purple/lilac, sage green and white (wedding) so I am going round identifying what I think will be looking good enough to use at the time of cutting.

My goodness that was an epic workout 😜 5pm finish and John helped me from 3pm, looks better but still can’t make a silk purse from a sows ear 😂 The driveway will be 80 years old next year so it has seen a lot of comings and goings, it was laid by the MOD though so lasted longer than a council one 😬 The whole place was built specifically for D Day so I know roughly how old the drive is and there are some boot prints in it and I often wonder whose boots they were. The tree roots have moved and cracked it in many places so the weeds take hold easily, some of the edges are breaking up so the weeds take hold easily and we no longer weedkiller so the weeds take hold easily 🤣 But as I said to John, at least it looks as though someone lives here now rather than a derelict entrance, just have to work hard on the rest of the place (once the mower is back) and get some fencing done. The trouble with fencing is that it comes way down on the list for the farm contractor, lambing, ploughing, harvesting, hay making, flailing all come first it seems and so they get round to it eventually 🙄

The apple tree is out of control and the problem with that is it’s getting to the wrong time of year to cut it for size control. There are hundreds of apples on it this year, last years apples were huge but this year a lot smaller and a gazillion tiny ones. The crows keep raiding it but the trouble with that is once they peck at an apple and it falls on the floor they just move to the next one rather than go down to the ground and finish the one they started. So before I could even cut the grass under the tree I had to rake up apples and the grass is long so you can see what a pig of a job it has been. I put some windfalls by the egg shed for people to help themselves, I have picked a bucketful for myself to store and asked people to come pick some if they want some so if you are reading this and you want any just pop up with a bucket and get some 😁

Tuesday: I had Oscar today so mostly what my time was spent doing was playing, singing, feeding lol. But while he was sleeping I looked up lots of recipes for Aronia berries or chokeberries, I have three bushes in the garden and this year they are loaded with berries. Too tart to eat raw but these berries are one of the best kept secrets when it comes to antioxidants (more than any other fruit) they pack a big vit c punch and are great for circulation, urinary tract health (5-10 times more effective than cranberries) they are very definitely a superfood. So why don’t we see them in the shops 🤷‍♀️ no idea, not as saleable as blueberries I suppose, maybe something you would find in a specialist shop or a health food store (dried). I will be making a syrup with them and freezing it in ice cube sizes, then they can easily be added to all kinds of things for that superfood extra. They freeze well whole and apparently are sweeter once frozen, you can use them exactly the same way you would with any other berry and they have the added bonus for wildlife in that they stay on the bush well into autumn.

Wednesday: The sun came out whoop whoop, I have got wet cutting flowers that many times over the last few days I was getting pretty bored of it 😂 Still I have had the opposite problem where it got too hot at times to be outside, can’t win. I got the washing on first thing and out into the line but someone somewhere decided a bonfire was a great idea on the first sunny (washing drying) day for a while 🙄 I had flowers to cut and going round it was evident that the rain had affected some of them but hopefully once deadheaded they will flush with more blooms. I read that if you think you have deadheaded enough you probably have more you can do 😂 deadheading is vital to keep those flowers coming, disbudding is another one and of course cutting back.

Sam popped in with George and Lucie while Mia was off playing with a friend, they like to go looking for berries, cucumbers and eggs. The eggs we found had been eaten by the hens already 🙄 we couldn’t find many berries but we found a cucumber which I cut into lengths and they eat with gusto lol.

Thursday: Another nice day thankfully, I cut lots of flowers and foliage for orders yesterday and today I needed to get them made up but first I had to get some washing done and household bits and pieces. I did make some Aronia syrup to keep in the fridge too.

I went into the flower hut to make up 22 jam jars which take a lot longer and more flowers than you think. The customer had said that although I don’t do specific colours this was the colour scheme so said I will do my best to accommodate. However after putting them all together I wasn’t happy with how they looked and spent a while trying to sort them out. I came to the conclusion that limiting colour is ok if you have an abundance of that particular colour which I don’t at the minute. As it stands it is mid afternoon and I am planning on cutting some different colours this evening when it’s cooler to add to them. One of the problems is that anything I do have in that colour has thin stems so the posies are look as though they are lacking (to me at any rate) You leave and learn I guess.

We went to watch George and Lucie at their very first swimming lesson, Sam (and me ) was worried that George wouldn’t listen and just mess about but actually he was really good and did as he was asked. Interesting to watch and see how confident Lucie was compared to George considering generally in life it’s the other way round. We watched the end of Mia’s lesson and she was awarded her green hat so she was very proud and rightly so. I love the traffic light system of the swimming hats, red (can’t swim) orange and then green (swimmer) ideal for the lifeguards I imagine.

Once back home I got the dinner and then cut some flowers for orders before going back to the jam jars and tweaking them until I was happy with them. A little bit of deadheading, watering g and weeding before deciding that was enough for today.

Friday: I got the washing on the line first thing as the forecast showed 0% chance of rain and an hour later guess what, it bloody rained 🙄

I had more flowers to cut for orders today and then pack the jam jar order up ready for collection. It is tricky transporting these but each time I do it I learn a little more. I only fill the jars half full with water they can then be topped up when they reached the destination, I pack them in low sided boxes or veg crates and use paper to stop them jangling around or clanging against each other and then we drive slowly 😂 I have seen a great method of holes cut in squares of flattish polystyrene but have yet to try it out.

Saturday: I had an order for flowers this morning, I cut them yesterday evening so I needed to get them ready for collection mid morning. Once collected we popped to a local plant sale and then a quick trip to the garden centre for cake and coffee. At teatime Charlie came to pick me up as I was going with her to babysit for Sam and Luke, a great chance to get a take away curry which I never do as John doesn’t eat curry 🙄

Sunday: John has been busy strimming and mowing when the weather allows. The rain was on and off today and so I spent the morning creating dried flower things 😊 At lunchtime Charlie dropped Oscar off, she was going to a baby shower and Macca was on his way back from a cycling trip and was picking him up when he got home. When he arrived Oscar was fast asleep and slept for at least another 45 minutes 😂 Once they went home I went back to the dried flowers for a while. We popped round to see my sister and happily stayed for something to eat when it was offered.

Friesland Farm

Gathering the (tiny) harvest in, botanical dyeing & still plenty of rain.

Posted on August 7, 2023 by frieslandfarm

Monday 31st July 2023: The whole of July we have had rain every day, sometimes heavy, we have had hardly any sun but at least the temperature has been ok on the whole. It is topsy turvy at the moment, I am not complaining too much though as I have not had to water the garden at all this month 😂

I have had some pretty busy weeks with the flowers but this week is much calmer so it gives me chance to catch up with all the other jobs that have been neglected. I started off with tidying things away indoors, finding the right places for ‘stuff’ to live 🙄 Then outside into the greenhouse to sow some foxglove seeds for next year (lovely apricot ones) and pot on some brassica plants. They ought to be planted out really but I need to reorganise the garden and so no point planting them until they can go into the final place. They are curly kale and purple sprouting broccoli which I love to be able to pick fresh in the new year, it’s worth the wait when nothing else is around. I also sowed some carrot seeds and some perpetual spinach. Then I picked some purple French beans and some Logan berries and took those indoors to prep. The beans were blanched and drained then bagged up ready for the freezer and along with some apples from the tree the berries were cooked in honey ready for crumbles. I made two lots of crumble toppings, one traditional for John and one healthy one for me, oats, nuts and cinnamon. Both lots can be frozen for using as and when needed but the oat one will need coconut oil added to it before cooking. I made two crumbles for dessert later so I will see what it tastes like, John won’t like just honey in his apple and berry mix but he can add sugar if needs be whereas I prefer mine on the sharper side so just honey is fine. At this time of year I start to think about stocking up and making things for winter use, it’s that primal side of me again 😜 I will continue to add goods to my dried and frozen store and if we ever have to hunker down I am all in 😂

Had a visit from Sam and the kiddies in the afternoon, they have just come back from their caravan holiday in the New Forest and were full of stories of their adventures 🥰

We have lamb loin for dinner tonight with French beans, johns potatoes are sliced and roasted in the oven plainly while mine are made into a gratin with stock, crème fraise and Parmesan cheese. I have no objection to this while John is still doing all the washing up 😂 he is beginning to realise that when cooking everything from scratch you use a lot of bowls and utensils. He made himself scrambled egg at lunchtime and normally would not give the dirty pan another thought, I told him he would have to wash it up because I need it to cook the beans for dinner and as I still can’t do the washing up (shame) he would have to get it done sharpish 😜

I have Oscar all day tomorrow from early morning as it is Charlie’s first day back at work so I need to get tomorrows dinner sorted tonight. Slow cooker meals it is then, a chicken stew for John I think and a dhal for me, I will make extra portions of botthat can be frozen for another day

Tuesday: Oscar day 🥰 all went fairly well, takes a bit of getting used to having a little one all day again 😜 I did take him out for a walk in the pushchair when he clearly didn’t want to sleep in the cot, I foraged some cherry plums while I was out 😁 Hoping to go back for some more later this evening, I’m pretty sure they are early this year 🤷‍♀️ I have had conversations online with other country folk, there seems to be an awful lot of blackberry flowers this year to, we are wondering what the winter has in store for us 🙄

I have been stocking up my pantry with various dried goods and some tins, the news is full of doom and gloom about wheat at the minute. Wheat coming from Ukraine (or rather not coming) and the wheat harvest here because of the rain in July. My take on this is that we can (and should) adjust what we eat, be more resilient, more flexible but so many people are not which is a worry I think.

After dinner I went outside to cut flowers, they are not for orders but because the forecast for tomorrow is horrible, thunder, lightening, possible heavy downpours and high winds. I don’t want the blooms that are almost ready to get damaged and so it was a damage limitation exercise 🙄 I will use them one way or another, new orders might come in and I will have flowers good to go or I will see what can be dried or I can just use them to practise something new. I only have one Lily and I don’t even know where it came from but I cut it and ended up with pollen on my cheek. It was quite difficult to remove the stain and so I thought that the stamen might be useful for dyeing the silk ribbons 🤷‍♀️ nothing ventured nothing gained as they say.

Once that was done I was determined to get some more cherry plums from the side of the road, if tomorrow’s weather is correct most of them will end up on the floor and there are hundreds of them. I would have liked to get a lot more but the general rule is to take only as much as you need or can use and so I behaved myself 😜

Wednesday: The terrible weather that was forecast didn’t arrive 😜 so I spent my time making up some flower bunches with the flowers I cut. There are a lot of pinks around at the minute so with the Barbie movie current at the minute I made very pink jam jar arrangements and a pink bunch. Then I decided to colour code the other bunches until I had a rainbow of flowers 😁

No idea what else I did that day, (writing this up on Saturday) I think Sam and the children came over for a couple of hours in the afternoon. John has been off a fair bit this week so he has been tidying up the stable block and re boarding the walls. He tried cutting grass but the mower is broken, two of the blades won’t work so it has to go in for repair and is being picked up on Friday.

Thursday: Still not much of a clue as to what I did except I have been doing a lot of dyeing, it’s addictive 😂 Finding plants that I think will work well as a dye, researching so that I understand what I am doing with it. So far I have tried cold dye with no mordant to see what effect I get, loving the berry dye colours 🥰 I have used avocado skins, sage, mulberries, lavender (not much colour but the ribbon smells lovely) calendula, coreopsis, indigo powder and turmeric.

The one on the right hand side is the original colour of the raw silk.

The twins came over for their weekly session with me while Mia goes to swimming lessons. We played tig with Grampy outside in the garden and then got dinner for them. This is the last week we will have them on Thursdays 😔 as they start their own swimming lessons next week 😁

Friday: I had a phone call late afternoon yesterday for a large celebration bouquet to be collected this morning. It was a big one and I had to make three bunches and put them together to make one large bouquet as my hands are pretty small lol. I made that first thing along with another order that was being collected in the afternoon. John was off today so was working in the stable block some of the time and harassing me about shares the rest of the time. He has had shares for a while and just left them where they were but has now decided to shuffle them around, the only problem with that is it is me that has to do it because he doesn’t know how (and doesn’t do technology 🙄) He watches them on his phone and comes to find me when he wants to buy or sell them 😜 fine except that he expects me to drop what I am doing there and then to get the best price 😂 I did suggest he gets his own iPad (phone screens are too small at our age to see everything in one go) and do it himself but secretly I rather enjoy the thrill of buying and selling at the right time when possible.

Saturday: Started off in the early hours with torrential rain and basically has not stopped all morning, everything will be a washout today 😏 We went to get some shopping 🙄 drives me nuts going as I am quite sure we don’t need anything but if the biscuit tin is empty John thinks we need to go. I am definitely getting more tetchy as I get older either than or everything is going to the dogs. The shop (Morrisons) was flipping freezing and I know it’s cold for August but seriously I was so cold near the fridges I couldn’t concentrate on what I wanted to get. Last winter it was Baltic in there and I said to John (and the lady in the till) I am not shopping in here this winter coming it’s too cold. I have no idea what they are trying to do, save money I guess but it will backfire, if you are too cold to concentrate then people just won’t stop long, counterproductive if you ask me. Second bugbear is the bloody loyalty card system, it’s supposed to be geared to you personally, it is not, I will never be buying ginsters sausage rolls so don’t give me a discount, it seems more like they are trying to lead you to buying what they want you to buy and I am not that customer. To be honest I do not want to be a customer but John insists on going there, I am going to do my best to either avoid it or write him a list so he can go in future 😂 Johns shopping list is cheese, butter, bread, biscuits, crisps , jam, chocolate and ice cream oh and spring onions as a nod to something healthy 😜 If he doesn’t have those then we have ‘nothing to eat in the cupboards’ 🙄

We spent the rest of the day binge watching tv because the weather was so appalling it was not even worth stepping outside 🌧️

Sunday: I had flower to do this morning and so got straight on with those. The weather is better, dry at least but it’s still a tad on the colder side of summer. We are stuck in a weather dump that is going to move this week sometime but that has been nearly six weeks of crap in summer like weather we were stuck in 😂 the only consolation is that I haven’t watered outside at all 😁 Charlie walked over with Oscar first thing, he had his breakfast here and then they walked back, he was asleep before they even left the driveway. I then watered the small tunnel with the tomatoes and cucumbers in before cutting back a lot of the bottom foliage from the tomato plants so that the tomatoes can begin to ripen, even they are a bit slow this year.

We went out for lunch with friends midday which is something we rarely do, in fact I think it may be a first 😂 I lunch or have dinner with my friends or we do the same with family but not usually both of us out with friends. We had a lovely lunch in a lovely old Manor House that I didn’t even know was there but will definitely go back again.

In the evening I had a wander round the orchard area to see how the plums are doing this year. Not so good as last year but they can’t produce masses every year I guess. The plums trees really need some attention they are getting a bit straggly, it is difficult to get the pruning right on those as too late in the year and they could get disease but they are not looking great anyway then probably nothing to lose. The walnut tree has got huge this year and nuts are already dropping but I cracked one and it is still soft so no idea what is going on with that, they seem to be shedding early but not ready and the same with the hazel trees. It has been a most peculiar year mind you so anything is possible. I walked into the front paddock and was dismayed to find that when John had done some strimming he has strimmed a pussy willow whip I had been growing 😔 That is the third year in a row I had tried to grow something there and he has strimmed it down 😡 He has left a runner from the plumtree growing nicely though 😬 There was metal wire on the ground he said, yes I put that there to protect the roots from the chickens who like to scratch in dug over soil, ffs I give up sometimes, flipping trigger happy with that thing. We really need an odd job man to come once a week and do some of the jobs I think 🙄